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Superstorm Sandy was no Match for Sea Bright

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Superstorm Sandy

If applause were a sea wall, that which was given again and again Saturday would be large enough and strong enough to hold back an even bigger Superstorm Sandy and surge with no difficulty but a lot of  pride and thanks.

That’s what was happening in Sea Bright Saturday, as the town celebrated the tenth anniversary of proving neighbors working together and generous volunteers giving energy, time and talent can work miracles.

Well over 100 residents, municipal leaders, State Senator Declan O’Scanlon and Congressman Frank Pallone were ebullient with praise and thanks to all the residents, state, county and national agencies, and especially volunteers who came in ten years  ago, after Superstorm Sandy whipped through the borough,  and helped Sea Bright get back on its feet and forge ahead.

This is typical Sea Bright;  even the board filled with headlines and stories from ten years ago showed that even while picking up, throwing out, searching, drying, building and renewing showed the positive nature of this town of 1500 residents. Headlines like “We’re thankful for what we have” and “We’ll be back!” shone over  the horrific photos of devastated businesses, homes, and resources that  residents, friends and relatives faced ten years ago when the borough was under ten feet of water from ocean to the Shrewsbury River.

The celebration Saturday was hosted by the Fire Department in its building that is post Sandy, as well as other volunteers and included music, a few talks that brought on the applause, and lots of hot and cold food and beverages so folks could sit around tables and talk about the future, rather than the past, with old friends and new arrivals.

Congressman Pallone praised the borough for “Bringing Sea Bright back” and promised there will  continue to be funds and assistance, as well as reformed flood insurance from the national government to help Sea Bright and other Storm-devasted  communities.

Senator O’Scanlon laughingly told how he became proficient at securing “portable toilets,” good naturedly leading and accepting the teasing and laughter associated with the idea of a legislator finding toilets.  Referring to the sunshine and clear skies at the celebratory event Saturday, O’Scanlon said “God answered our prayers and He’s proving it with the weather…Sea B right has risen!”

Chris Wood spoke briefly after thunderous applause as the owner of  the popular Woodie’s Restaurant but more importantly the businessman who provided so much food and sustenance do volunteers long after Stormy passed but clean-up continued.

Planning Board Chairman Lance Cunningham, owner of Carriage House Marina, and a lifetime resident, recalled the devastation, but most of all recalled the generosity of residents and businesses as well as volunteers from all over.

Borough Administrator Joe Verroni, came to town when appointed to organize and  administer activity after the storm and later was officially named borough administrator, was also thanked, praised and applauded, as were police, fire, former Councilman Charlie Rooney, and present Mayor Brian Kelly, who noted the event showed the borough has come “full circle.”

But even more thunderous applause was showered on former Mayor Dina Long, who had been elected to the position just ten months before Sandy struck. Rooney told the story of calling after the storm and urging her to quit the mayoral position since it would be overwhelming work, no thanks, and all of her time.  She was polite but firm, as she told the resident “I can’t quit, I have to do this for Sea Bright.” It was only later that Rooney learned the Mayor had lost her own house in Sandy, but nonetheless took the lead because it was “our town.” It was her spirit and coincidence, Rooney said, together with his own desire to ‘get the old Sea Bright back again” that made his decision to run successfully for election shortly after.

And with their leashed dogs at their feet, neighbors friends and strangers from other towns heard some memories of a decade ago, some heartbreaking, others strangely funny, but all meaningful.

Atlantic Highlands Councilman Brian Boms, at the event to help his neighbors celebrate, recalled the weeks he spent in Sea Bright and Highlands after the storm, leading volunteer groups, working with FEMA, and helping everywhere he could to assist the stricken. Boms was also a leading figure in the building of the boardwalk along the oceanside.

Heather Gorman, an Independent candidate for council in next week’s election, hugged her daughter Corinna as she recalled Corinna was heavy in her womb at Hurricane Sandy, and despite all the offers and suggestions she leave and go to a safer place, Gorman shrugged and said, “I just couldn’t do that. I saw the bridge, but how could I leave? This is Sea Bright and I wasn’t going to go anyplace else.”

 

Prejudices and Opinions – Dancing Around the Issues

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Dancing

If some people were not so entrenched in their prejudices and opinions, this would be a funny story. Unfortunately rather it is now a story of awful bias and narrow minded thinking.

I denied my copy artist his request to put a caricature on the page with my story about the Atlantic Highlands councilwoman who doesn’t like the Catholic Church in town to have all of its own activities in the town where it is situated. Instead, I okayed his simple dark lines on a photograph and decided to make it an experiment.

    Keep that in mind. Three dark lines on a photograph.

The experiment showed a couple of things that surprised me and  sorrowed me.

The first is hundreds, perhaps thousands, because my blog goes to at least four continents around the world, read the story about the councilman questioning a recent religious appreciation  service for the volunteers who protect the Bayshore.

She said she had been analyzing the situation and told a non-member of the Church at a public meeting, on record,  that maybe that Church, and the international organization that has a council that is connected with that Catholic Church in town, should not hold that appreciation service at their own church in town every year.

She even suggested that maybe they should think of holding  the ceremony at the chapel at Fort Hancock, a non-denominational chapel, which, of course, has been closed for religious services for decades.

Three dark lines on a photograph.

   Why she suggested this is confusing in that the issue at hand was NOT anything to do with the appreciation service, it had to do with whether the borough or its council members  would donate anything to help the volunteers defray the cost of their party afterward.  

She suggested it, she said, because the ceremony is to show appreciation and thanks to not only Atlantic Highlands volunteers but also the Coast Guard, National Park Service and other towns in the Bayshore.

Like it’s a bad thing for volunteers and their families from other towns to look forward to an annual event in Atlantic Highlands, one, by the way, that celebrated 20 years this year.

So that was my first disappointment and surprise came after I authored the story, and posted it on my blog along with a photograph and heavily marked lines over the upper lip and eyebrows.

Three dark lines on a photograph.

   The issue at hand was NOT anything to do with the appreciation service, it had to do with whether the borough or its council members  would donate anything to help the volunteers defray the cost of their party afterward.

I received hundreds of ‘likes’ for the post, a few “go get ‘ems” and “nobody else would do this, congratulations”  Most of those came, unfortunately, not from the town affected, but from outside the town. Some from outside the state, and I’m not sure, but I think  some were from outside the country.

But from a handful of people who live in Atlantic Highlands, there were some vicious comments and some charges of my being racist. The disappointment there was first, the idiocy of that, and second, the lack of attention to the story itself.

The issue at hand was NOT anything to do with the appreciation service, it had to do with whether the borough or its council members  would donate anything to help the volunteers defray the cost of their party afterward.

There were no comments from anyone in town that a councilwoman was actually suggesting that one denomination in a town filled with many people of many different religions,  was even suggesting they shouldn’t be honoring these volunteers at their own premises every year.

Doesn’t that bother anyone?

Doesn’t that bother anyone that an elected official would dare suggest that a religious sect NOT use its own facility to do what it wants? Especially when what it wants is to show appreciation for volunteers. Is that a bad thing?

    The issue at hand was NOT anything to do with the appreciation service, it had to do with whether the borough or its council members  would donate anything to help the volunteers defray the cost of their party afterward.

So how did it get to be about the appreciation ceremony?

A bit of song and dance to get away from answering a question?

A bit of a song and dance to possibly bring up the fact of how well the ceremony itself was attended?

A bit of a song and dance to possibly show a bit of personal feelings rather than address a specific question from a taxpayer?

The experiment showed the other terrifying thing.

That is the mental picture these people conjured up of the depiction with the drawing over lip and eyebrows. They charges of racism were lodged against me  because these critics immediately conjured up thoughts of war and evil, or horrific acts and sick minds.

These critics immediately thought negatively; they did not think the issue had absolutely nothing to do with the ceremony, the church, or the fine men and women who worked so hard to honor our volunteers. Switching from that subject was clearly a song and dance.

For those with an open mind, those lines definitely showed sarcasm…they were meant to…but it was not of an evil person as some sick minds may have thought it was.

Those lines were designed to depict a real song and dance man. Someone who cleverly entertained people with his song and dance routines.

Look at it again. Look at those three lines…remember there are THREE lines.

Song and Dance

The song and dance man is Charlie Chaplin…dancing around the real issues at hand.

Superstorm Sandy … 10 Years After

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Superstorm Sandy
Walt Guenther, whose great historic research on Highlands  and excellence in promoting it is blended with the great love he has for the town, a love handed down to him by the generations of his family who lived and loved it long before him, has passed on his own recollections of the Superstorm Sandy experience for the Historical Society of Highlands. Walt is a summer resident of Highlands, but his heart is here year round, and he penned his day to day recollections of what it was like to be here and salvage and clean up, along with everyone else, after that horrific storm ten years ago. He had written it as part of his own medicine to overcome the sadness of it all, but in reading it again on this anniversary, he thought it was worth sharing.
   We do, too, if only to remind people how much they suffered, endured, worked, and came back stronger, better, more prepared for the future, and, hopefully, proud of how they accomplished it all.
    Walt’s final words in presenting the recollections are typical of so many Highlands and Sea Bright residents: ”  Thanks to family, neighbors and friends who made all the difference in getting us all through that difficult time and the rebuilding years afterwards. “
Read Walt’s recollections.
Destroyed Belonging Being Taken Away

We’ve decided to put out a Superstorm Sandy Special Edition of our Historical Society of Highlands newsletter. It feels important to record what happened while the experiences and observations are still fresh or even raw. It is also important to keep our members and friends linked together for support and to let those especially hard hit by the storm know we are all standing together with them. It is also important to pick ourselves up the best we can and re-establish normal activities and life to begin the healing process for the town and our members, neighbors and friends.

 

Superstorm Sandy, called that because it was made up of both a Hurricane and a Nor’easter together that hit New Jersey and coastal New York during the full moon high tides, made landfall on the Jersey coast on the night of Monday, October 29 and early morning of Tuesday October 30, 2012. I am basing what is written here on my own personal experience and the conversations I had with people in Highlands for six days after the storm. I came back to Highlands on Thursday November 1 and stayed until November 7 when I had to leave to return to Ohio as another Nor’easter approached with wind, snow, cold and the threat of more flooding.

As a disclaimer, I am writing about what I saw. I’m sure I only am able to include a small part of the storm’s impact on Highlands because I didn’t see more. I apologize in advance for those things that I missed or forgot or if I misinterpreted any of the things I saw or heard. As time goes on, I hope people will add their experiences and we can write a broader, more complete view of what occurred.

This letter will be written as a series of glimpses of what happened so here goes…

Destroyed Belongings Ready for the Dump Trucks
Destroyed Belongings Ready for the Dump Trucks

The worst damage to Highlands and the surrounding towns on the Shore was caused by the surge of salt water that swept in from the ocean and Bay, surged over Sandy Hook, and flooded the lower portion of town. Heavy wind and rain also hit us but most of the wreckage looked like it was caused by the flood that hit with the High tides on Monday evening and Tuesday morning.  Most people had followed the mandatory evacuation order but not all.  I heard that nearly a hundred people in Highlands had to be rescued from the floodwaters by our Police, Fire Department, and First Aid Squad. Heroic neighbors also saved those trapped in flooded homes and cars and took them to higher ground. As in numerous other storms in years past, our first responders and ordinary townspeople risked their lives to bring people to safety.

The water was deep. It was six to ten feet deep in different parts of town depending on its elevation. Bay Avenue unfortunately is among the lowest points so water there was the deepest. Nearly every home and business in the lower part of Highlands was flooded.  The areas around Fifth Street, Paradise Point trailer park, Honeysuckle Lodge, and Water Witch were among the hardest hit. The water carried debris, boats, pilings and parts of docks, trees washed from Sandy Hook, all sorts of things washed away from people’s yards and homes, and lots and lots of mud, silt, and sand. When the water subsided, we all had to sweep out layers of mud, fine sand and seaweed from our homes. Needless to say, when this water came into a building it ruined the walls, furniture, appliances, and other belongings that have been accumulated during our lives.

I know that Historical Society of Highlands members Russ Card, Mae Rugg, Jackie White, Camille Cefalo, Carla and Ken Braswell, John Schneider, Luke Jenks, and my family had great damage and lost nearly everything—some more and some less. Many will not be able to return home until major repairs are made. I’m sure other members also lost everything but I just don’t know of their situations yet.

Sandy Cleanup Crews
Sandy Cleanup Crews

Of course, the public buildings and businesses that also make up the fabric of our town were also hard hit. The Borough Hall, First Aid Squad, Community Center where we have our meetings, the Post Office, Library all were badly damaged and closed. The new Fire House was OK and provided the emergency headquarters for Highlands first responders and government along with state and federal counterparts. Especially in the beginning, it was a scene of constant activity responding to emergency needs of our town and it truly inspired confidence that we were going to make it through this disaster. Our neighbors who are in these departments, most of whom are volunteers, were terrific. Fire and first aid runs were made, police patrols kept us safe, supplies were coordinated with the outside world, and help was provided. Volunteers prepared warm food for the first responders as they worked around the clock for days straight to help us. It was very professional and impressive and importantly, their service was at a personal level. This was not some far off bureaucracy but neighbors helping neighbors. Thank you so much.

Our mayor and Council, our Police Chief, and Borough Administrator were very visible every day all over town- at the shelter, the firehouse emergency headquarters, in the streets and neighborhoods. They made things work and arranged for help to get us on our feet again.

Our churches were hard hit. Those downtown were in the flood and OLPH served as  a focal point for collecting and distributing donated supplies to those in need. Our clergy from all churches were very visible and helped console and support all in need.

Highlands Elementary School and Henry Hudson High School classes were closed and FEMA set up its office to provide assistance at the elementary school. The High School was turned into the main emergency shelter for Highlands.  It was run by the Red Cross and staffed by knowledgeable, caring people flown in from all over the country. First of all it had lights, heat and hot water. The gym became a dormitory with clean warm cots and bedding for all who stayed there. The cafeteria served hot meals prepared by Red Cross and chefs and staff from Highlands restaurants temporarily out of business due to the storm. They were a huge improvement over the MRE’s (like combat rations) available in the first couple days. Supervised areas set up for children to color, draw, read and play games. Medical staff helped those who needed attention. Dry clothes were provided to people who had lost their clothing in flooded homes.

The Red Cross people were wonderful. They knew what to do and efficiently did whatever was needed. They were always upbeat and helped those coming to the shelter feel like some basic things would be normal again despite the damage downtown. I met Red Cross volunteers from Michigan, Missouri, St.Louis, Kansas, California and all over who came not knowing anything about Highlands but eager to help us. I spoke at one of their morning staff meetings to thank them and to explain briefly about Highlands- where it was vs the ocean and New York City, our history, and what it had been like before the storm. I gave them some town maps from this summer’s Clam Fest and some of our Historical Society membership forms with historical facts about Highlands. They liked them and they posted them up in their shelter office. Finally, I showed them how to walk from the High School across the ball field to Twin Lights where they could see our town, the ocean, NY City and, of course, Twin Lights. Later they told me the view was spectacular and lifted their spirits as well. Thank you to each of them for your help. What a wonderful country we are blessed to live in and with such good people.

You couldn’t enter town during the six days I was there unless you were a resident, relief worker, or hired contractor. Most of the time you could only enter town at a police checkpoint at the foot of the bridge by Bahrs. Police checked your papers. If you didn’t have a drivers license with a Highlands address or utility bills to prove you owned property there, you probably didn’t get in.  A curfew kept people off the streets from 6 PM to 6 AM. There was no electricity in town until some parts got power on Sunday night. It was cold, windy, empty and dark at night. The lights of New York City , the stars and moon, a few generators and police cars provided the only light outside. If you stayed in your home in town as I did, it was a bit scary. Our police were great. They recognized the few cars that were there overnight and they patrolled by frequently, stopping to shine their spotlights and ask if you were OK. I only heard of one looter in town who was arrested across the street from me when he was taking things from a home with the owners still there! On top of that he had his ten year old son with him! Police arrested him and said he was from a neighboring town.

The most amazing part to me was how everyone pulled together. Neighbors who may not have known each other well suddenly were like a tight knit family. On Seadrift Avenue and Marine Place, residents helped each other clear their homes, and make emergency repairs, cooked food on propane grills for the neighbors, offered supplies, news and consolation. We shared advice, helped each other move things too heavy for one person, shared tools, exchanged email addresses, and helped each other through our constant emotional ups and downs.  We know this experience has melded us into a tighter neighborhood than we were before.

Neighbors around our house found and saved eight of the twelve heavy wooden porch shutters that had protected our house before they were washed away. They are now stacked inside until we rebuild the front porch. Friends who had great damage to their own homes came by and helped make repairs to secure homes. I can’t say how much these acts of kindness are appreciated.

Since there was no electricity, everyone made full use of every hour of daylight to clear out and save as much as they could. This didn’t leave time to get food from the Red Cross shelter so wonderful people from less damaged areas inland drove by or set up their cars on corners to offer hot coffee or chocolate, sandwiches, and later, hot food. They brought trash bags, gloves, bleach for washing off the seawater soaked walls, batteries, and other supplies that were so important in the first days after the storm hit. All those I spoke to were simply families or church groups who acted to help neighbors in need. One had driven out from Columbus, Ohio to find a local church she could assist in delivering food and supplies. Another came by with big pots of meatballs and sauce in the back of her SUV and was handing out meatball subs to people struggling to salvage their homes and belongings. These people always had encouraging words for us. They were angels who helped get us through the worst first days.

Other groups gathered grills and tables along Bay Avenue from the Borough Hall to the Methodist Church and created a giant free block party to feed struggling residents and workers. It was amazing to see. It was also an important place to gather to find neighbors from other parts of Highlands that you hadn’t been able to contact since the storm hit. Cell phone service worked but getting the phones recharged was one of the most important daily tasks. You always needed to keep enough charge to make a 911 call if you needed to.

Clearing out the flooded houses and businesses was so depressing. Everything that had been soaked was piled up along the sidewalks to be taken away by the crews with frontloaders and dump trucks. The piles were so high in front of every house along the streets that it looked like snowbanks after a blizzard except that the piles were furniture, clothes, appliances, books, rugs, bedding, kitchen stuff and all the contents accumulated in homes over the years. It took four days to get all the ruined stuff out and thrown away. You just had to keep going without thinking about it too much, clearing one room at a time. Sometimes you were elated to find a picture or one of you kid’s toys or your Mom’s favorite pan that you could salvage. Mostly though it was hauling soggy stuff out to the pile on the street. The crews worked continuously from 7AM until dark loading the piles into dump trucks and hauling it away. Seeing the pile of your ruined stuff in front of your house was sad and it felt better when the cleanup crews had loaded on the trucks and took it away. It was better not to think about it too much.

It was cold and windy but sunny with some nice warm afternoons to revive you during the week after the storm. Good drying weather as my Dad used to say.  Wednesday morning a Nor’easter hit bringing cold and snow but thankfully no more flooding from the river.

Election Day came a week after the storm hit. I didn’t notice it much at the time with all the cleanup work but our town and nation’s citizens exercised our freedom to select those who will lead us for the next several years. God bless them as they make big and small decisions to benefit us all and particularly to help us as we recover from Superstorm Sandy. Election officials and citizens made big sacrifices to set up and deal with emergency voting facilities with long lines in less than ideal conditions. Thank all of you.

Beside no electricity, a big concern was no gasoline. I think it was in the gas station tanks but with no power, they couldn’t pump it into cars. Lines at the WaWa store on Route 36 were over a mile long on Friday. After Governor Christie set up mandatory odd/even program for filling cars, things seemed to improve pretty quickly. By Monday night there were no lines and there was plenty of gasoline. Prices stayed about where they were before the storm…$3.45 a gallon.

The Highlands bridge was closed and guarded by soldiers in Humvees until after I left on November 7, it may be open by now. Sea Bright was nearly destroyed and we heard the town was covered by four feet of sand so they need to keep people out of the way as rescue and recovery work goes on. I didn’t hear any specifics about Sandy Hook except that it was badly damaged. I heard the 1762 Lighthouse is OK. Importantly the Coast Guard base on Sandy Hook was heavily destroyed. I spoke to a Coastguardsman stationed there who said the docks, maintenance facilities, storage and equipment buildings and the personnel living quarters were wrecked. He said it could be a year before it is back to full operation. The Coast Guard boats were away from the docks for safety and are OK. Probably another reason to close the bridge to keep people away from this Homeland Security facility until repairs are made.

Many people have asked how they can help members in Highlands who were hurt by the storm. Past President Judith Patterson has agreed help coordinate linking our member’s needs to any support and help offered by our members and friends. She may need help getting this done. Contact her at 732-291-9249 or navratil2@aol.com if you can offer help to our members who suffered severe damages in the storm.

The HSH Executive Board has decided to postpone Society activities until things are more settled in Highlands, probably several months. Since we regularly suspend activities for January and February, this specifically means that the November meeting is cancelled. The annual HSH Holiday Party usually held at Bahr’s in December will be postponed. We are thinking of holding a dinner with a less elaborate program possibly in March at Bahr’s if they can handle our size group then.  We will let you know. Lynda and I will try to get out newsletters to keep our members and friends in touch and informed about news from Highlands. Please email or call me with news to include in future newsletters.

 

There are a number of links to websites that have pictures and videos of the storm in Highlands. Please let me know if you are aware of others so we can share them with our members and friends.

One piece of great news is that member Camille Cefalo has completed her surgery and is recovering well. She is speaking again and her outlook is great. Our thoughts and prayers go out to Camille and her family for a continued full and speedy recovery.

 

Please also send me any pictures , video or news of your storm  and recovery experiences so we can share them with members and add them to the Society archives. Email them to me at guentherwb@aol.com or mail them to Walt Guenther  1195 Brittany Lane Upper Arlington Ohio 43220.

 

I’m sorry that this is all I can think to include right now. I know I probably have forgotten to include many of the acts of kindness shown to me and our fellow Highlanders and some of the information and experiences from the first few days after the storm hit. Still a little shell shocked from it all and that’s all I can think of to write right now.

 

Thankfully no one in Highlands was killed by the storm. I try to believe that things we lost were mostly stuff, and that we can get more stuff. The most important treasures were have are our family, neighbors and friends and especially our relationships with them. I believe these ties will be the key to our rebuilding of the lives and fabric of our town and that ultimately we will all be a stronger community for it.

Thanks so much to all who helped keep us safe and to recover from Sandy.

Stay well and take care of each other. Keep each of those affected by the Storm in your thoughts and prayers.

All the best,

 

Walt Guenther

Historical Society of Highlands

Update: Highlands Borough Hall

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Borough Hall

For all those who drive past and watch construction of that ten million dollar Highlands Borough Hall being raised on Route 36 right across from Our Lady of Perpetual Help Church, here are some good news snippets to make you happy.

Work is progressing, not only on time, but ahead of schedule.   At this point, it’s only weather that will slow it down in the next month.

As it looks now, by Thanksgiving, the building will be closed 1n, so weather will not be such a factor anymore.  Hopefully, work will progress within the walls as quickly as it has until this point.

Closing it in also means all those electric lights that have been shining at both levels of the construction all night and weekends won’t be lighting up the neighborhood anymore. The boro administrator and police chief both said Kappa Construction, the builder and electric bill payer for now, has kept the lights on for safety purposes, as well as so passing patrol cars can get a quick glance between the girders and see if anyone is dancing around inside, just for fun. The property is fenced and the gate locked, but you can never tell what mischievous or daring young folks might want to try after dark.

And if you’ll notice, there are only one or two cars these days parked half on the highway and half on the sidewalk and even that’s going to end before Thanksgiving. Seems some of the laborers have parked on the highway so as not to infringe on residential parking places, but that in itself is a safety hazard and prevents all those folks walking their dogs from easy access to the highway. But within a few weeks, part of what will eventually be the entire parking area for the building will be paved, so all those industrious workers will be able to pull off Route 36 and park right up on the site.

That’s al the good news for this week. For certain there will be more news of all kinds in coming weeks on the construction that has been thought about for years, planned for some, changed again and again and yet, ten years after Sandy, it’s still not a fait accomplis. But it’s costing a heck of a lot more, thanks to some of that early planning and changes.

Jewish Heritage Museum Casino Night

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Casino Night

The Jewish Heritage Museum of Monmouth County presents its first fundraising event since the pandemic: Casino Night, on Saturday, Nov. 12 at 7:30 PM, at the Freehold Jewish Center.

 

Guests are invited to place  bets and win prizes during a raffle giveaway! Proceeds from this program will help support the Museum’s efforts to explore and exhibit the rich and unique 300-year history of the Jewish residents of Greater Monmouth County.

 

Featured during the evening will be popular casino games including blackjack, craps, roulette, Texas Hold’em, and other professionally run casino games.  Tickets for the event are $75 per person or $140 per couple, which includes admission to the event and $200 in chips. This event is open to the entire community.

 

For more information or to make a reservation, call the Museum at 732-252-6990 or visit the Museum’s website at http://www.jhmomc.org.

 

Funding for the event was made possible in part through a general operating support grant from the New Jersey Historical Commission, a Division of the Department of State, through grant funds administered by the Monmouth County Historical Commission.

 

The Jewish Heritage Museum is located in the Mounts Corner Shopping Center at 310 Mounts Corner Drive, Freehold, at the corner of Route 537 and Wemrock Road (between the CentraState Medical Center and Freehold Raceway Mall). It is on the second floor of the historic Levi Solomon Barn.

 

The Museum is a tax-exempt organization under 501 (c)(3) of the Internal Revenue Code and is open to visitors by appointment. The Museum is handicapped and assistive-listening accessible. Masks and vaccinations are required.

 

Lucky 13th!

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Aria Grace

There’s no doubt about it. Welcoming another baby into the family is always a joy, and this month we were all overjoyed when Aria Grace Smith made her entrance a few days early but gorgeous and healthy as can be. Aria is the third offspring of my oldest grandson, Jason, and joins Melissa and Jason along with her big brother, James, and very vivacious eight year old sister Cadence. For me, it’s the 13th great grandchild and the eighth to be living in New Jersey and close enough to hug and hold.

Grave to Grave

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Maplewood Cemetery

Once again, two great historians in Freehold Borough are offering an incredible opportunity to learn more about some earlier boro residents who have put Freehold on the map, not only for being the scene for war and starting the country but up to modern times and connections to Bruce of Bruce of God Bless the USA fame.

Former Mayor Nolan Higgins and borough historian Kevin Cohen are inviting all to join them on a tour of Maplewood Cemetery on Sunday., Nov. 6, at 1 p.m.

The duo are going to walk grave to grave, telling some of the stories about the incredibly varied personalities of the men and women buried there.

The historians are quick to point out that while the old buildings and magnificent architecture which are so much a part of the town are vital to history, it’s really the lives of the people who lived there that tell the more fascinating stories.

Some of the graves the group will visit are those of a Revolutionary war soldier, as well as Civil War heroes…there is a Medal of Honor recipient buried here…as well as the manager of Springsteen’s first band. There are also a couple of governors in Maplewood, as well as some people for whom different streets in town are named.

The cemetery is at 169 Main St., just past its intersection with Route 9.

No need to reserve, just meet on the same side of the road that Freehold Raceway Mall is on, the north side. There are two driveways into the older section of the cemetery, so pull into either of the driveways and park there. The group will meet between the driveways

Plane Crashed

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Shrewsbury River

It was 100 years ago this month when a pilot circling over Highlands  crashed into the Shrewsbury river and was rescued by clammers and lobstermen in the area.

The plane belonged to to Richmond Airways of New York and the pilot was accompanied by a passenger in training. He was enroute to deliver some advertising for the firm, when he went into a tailspin and began to drop. Realizing this, the pilot, who was in communication with someone on the ground at the time, swerved to head for deeper water.

The pilot had relatives living on a houseboat in Highlands, and wanted to circle overhead to get their attention when the incident occurred.

The plane began his fall from about 300 feet over Neimarks bungalows, according to the Atlantic Highlands Herald of the day,  and eventually ended up over “Nigger Flats” opposing Conners Cedar Grove Hotel . Clammers and lobstermen rushed to help until the Coast Guard at Sea Bright arrived on the scene as well.

The plane was towed to Meeker’s on Atlantic Street and eventually back home to Staten Island. Although the frame of the plane was destroyed and valued at about $6500, the engine was still in fine shape.

It was the only accident the pilot had ever had in 14 years in the air.

I’m Fed Up! Municipal Lies & Liars

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Atlantic Highlands

 Ok, this time it’s gone too far. I’m fed up!. I really feel I’ve been nice long enough. I’ve tried doing things the nice way.

   Unfortunately, that hasn’t worked.

    Now I’ll get down to some cold hard facts and opinions based on the actions or inaction I was hoping would be resolved or made known to the public before I got to this point.

    But things have only gotten worse. 

    So this is the second in a series of articles intended to expose the moral corruption in our schools, in our towns, in our elected officials and the employees that work for us.  

   This series,  which unfortunately may never end because there is so much to expose, will go from the hallways of our schools to the hallways of our State house, and lots of hallways in between. 

   For those who don’t like what I have to say, save the threats.

Save the phone calls.

Save the nastiness on Facebook.

Simply look the other way, think that everything is hunky dory in your part of the world, and  don’t read my blog. The time will come when you think, “Hey, I wish I knew that because I could have done something about it.”  But by then, it might be too late. 

    It’s almost too late now.

 

Because of another commitment, I missed  the Oct. 27 regular meeting of the Atlantic Highlands Borough Council. But upon listening to the official  recording of that session, I realized my new series on how the public is being mistreated by elected and appointed officials at all levels of government is probably going to be never ending.

It seems every meeting there is at least one more way, by at least one more elected person,  that so easily shows how little they really care for or are concerned about the opinions or even questions from the people they are supposed to represent.

No one can doubt that one concerned resident who attends an awful lot of Atlantic Highlands and sometimes other municipal meetings of different boards and commissions is an organized, astute, intelligent, determined, interested voter.

He has no desire to win any office, no intention of ever getting personal about any issue; he simply wants elected officials to do their jobs and keep the people informed.

He tried again at this meeting for both.  He found out, once again,  he was unsuccessful at each.

It was a very fine line, almost ludicrous, that the officials, apparently with the advice of the attorney, drew between the Harbor Commission throwing a party for customers at the Harbor, with public money and the borough council to spending even  a single cent on a party for the men and women who put their lives on the line and lose sleep at night simply to help anyone in need, including those customers of the Harbor.

Council all agreed at the meeting…at least none objected…its was legal and proper to throw that money on a party for the Harbor Commission.  But not okay to help the volunteers defray the costs of the party they were throwing to thank the folks who took time out to show appreciation for them at a public function.

Know what the difference was according to the borough attorney?   That party, and it’s my guess it cost around $6,000 or so, the Harbor Commissioners approved?  That was just for a party the Harbor Commission decided to have. Then they decided to invite the boat owners to it. That was okay.

So I guess, according to these elected officials and their attorney,  it’s okay for a tax generating commission to spend money when they feel like having a party.

Furthermore, it’s OK for them to limit who can go to that party.  They simply invited folks they wanted to attend, their customers.  Not all the customers of the harbor even. Just the specific ones they sent invitations to. That was OK, Council agreed last night.

But that party at the Shore Casino that the volunteers paid for themselves, as their way of saying thanks to those who gave them recognition?   Well, the borough can’t just give out taxpayers’ money for something like that!!!!

They couldn’t just give dollars to someone else having a party!. Even for the volunteers they had lavished praise on earlier in the meeting.

Let me get this straight. The Harbor commission can have a party and give a check to the restaurateur,. But the Borough Council cannot since they weren’t hosting the party or limiting who could come.

That, my friends, is about the cheapest, most low down, sneakiest way I have heard of not wanting to spend a cent on volunteers who are so generous with their time, talent, and lives.

So who do you think looks more important to your elected officials? The customers who are invited to a party simply because they pay their bills? Or the volunteers who want to say thanks for the thanks they’ve received for a few hundred people.

What a way to encourage more volunteering. Or to show appreciation for the outstanding ones we have.

By the way, council members did not even say whether they individually made any donation to the party the volunteers threw. I can’t remember if any of them came to it.

Got all of that straight? It gets worse. Read on.

How about an outright lie by the councilwoman to the same quiet spoken resident?

The taxpayer, addressing the entire governing body,  began to explain that someone did go to  “the Church” for information after the last meeting when it was suggested he do so. It was a question on the status of any proposed purchase of Mother Theresa School.

But instead of being courteous, and letting the resident and taxpayer even finish his statement, the councilwoman cut him off, and sharply said “what do you mean by “the church”? He calmly answered, “that’s what YOU said at the meeting.”  The councilwoman, without taking a breath, denied that, and responded she had said the church leaders, not the church…

Simply a lie.

And outright lie.

No excuse, no confusion, no mistake.

A Bald Face, unmitigated, absolute, utter lie

Listen to the recording of the Oct. 13 council meeting yourself. It could not be more clear. “The Church”  doesn’t sound anything like “the leadership of the church.”

If you cannot  trust an elected official sitting at the council table at an official meeting  to tell the truth on a simple statement that can be proven so easily  how can you trust her with your tax dollars, your budget, the improvements to your town, or for that matter, any municipal decision?

Oh, keep reading if you think that’s all that happened. People from “the Church,” or any church, or any religion were dealt another blow by the same councilwoman at the same meeting!

The councilwoman who wants to raise flags or have parades to honor other groups of people actually wondered aloud at the meeting about the Knights of Columbus holding an event to honor the local volunteers “because it’s always In our church.” She has been thinking about it a lot, she said, and “some things need to be analyzed.” She then actually suggested the groups honoring the volunteers go somewhere else, like  “there’s a chapel at Fort Hancock, sometimes,” why not think of going there?

So now a Catholic Church in the borough, and an international organization like the Knights of Columbus, aren’t welcome to invite everyone to come to a church in Atlantic Highlands?

A  church going councilman explained to her, as did the mayor, that the Knights of Columbus and St. Agnes Church are both part of Atlantic Highlands, pretty active and generous parts of the town, by the way. They pretty much can hold any event they want in their own facilities.

And by the way. Does that mean she doesn’t want a community organization like the Knights of Columbus to invite local volunteers to her town? Does she now want a local community like St. Agnes parish to invite volunteers from other towns to come to the town to be appreciated? And, by the way, at the same time, to these visitors to see our great restaurants, great shops, great First Avenue businesses we have here?

Is “the church” so wrong in wanting to brag about its home town and its volunteers?

Besides, unlike the Harbor Commission, they even invite everyone to join in the thanksgiving and appreciation of volunteers.

And just one more little thing. It’s probably natural for elected officials to be vain. Egotistical, even.  It is certainly evident many times. I perceive it as belittling  a local resident and trying to make light of all his questions rather than a jab at me  or anyone else not in attendance at the meeting.  When the still calm and  composed resident mentioned that someone had written  about what “the Church” had to say about the proposed acquisition, some of these things had been written  about and were written about on line, he was blithely told him she was happy “she” , referring apparently to the writer, always used a good picture “of me when she’s  going after me.”.

 

 

You elect local residents, people who live in your town, to run the business of your town. You do it at the County level as well, and at the state level, too. Your obligation doesn’t end there. When they’re not doing their job, ask questions, get answers, and when you don’t get the answers, go higher up. Sure it hurts. But it’s your town, your county, your state. Keep it the way you love it. And hold those officials accountable!

 

Atlantic Highlands: Hidden Candidates, Hidden History

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Other than some signs around and from door to door visits I’m hearing about…certainly no one has come to my door…it seems to be a quiet election campaign in Atlantic Highlands and that makes me wonder.

From Facebook, which I suppose is the newest “newspaper”, I learned about the experience of the two incumbent council candidates, the committees on which they serve, the work they’ve done on these committees and their background.  I was particularly interested because it looks like those candidates were not allowed on some pages, and that makes me curious.

Happens to me all the time, so indeed, I can sympathize.

Folks that manage Facebook pages have control over who can be on them and who can’t, and it’s a shame when they use that authority to prevent people from reading everybody.  If folks are being banned, Atlantic Highlands should never be in their title because it’s hard to differentiate whether it’s an official or unofficial page.  Not very transparent.

But through some things I’ve seen and personal knowledge from their years of being in the public eye,  I know one candidate  is a Naval Academy graduate, and of course, with my having a daughter who is also a Naval officer, and two other offspring who were Marines, one flying 46’s, similar to helicopters the Academy grad military Officer deployed, I  know what his training and background are and can appreciate  how they have  been instilled in him.  I know he’s been in the chemical business and even owned a very successful cannabis business, but has not muddied the waters on what he thinks of a shop in his own home town until he hears from the people.  I know he belonged to some group working hard on cleaning buses of all those sickening fumes because of his dedication to the environment, and seeing him at meetings he strikes me as a thinking, quiet man who listens to the people before giving any opinions.

I know his running mate, the other incumbent,  has a long career in both finance and business, from Wall Street to real estate as well as being heavily involved with new construction. From personal experience, I certainly know he’s chairman of the County Library Commission and oversees the $18 million business in its 17 buildings and affiliate libraries.   I’ve seen his actions and activities on this Board which heads up what must be the best library system in the state. I also know he’s been involved with the Education Foundation and is big on saving the beauty of the ocean.  From being a neighbor for a while, I know he is  very involved dad with his son and even clears snow from neighbors porches, stairs and sidewalks. I see them both at meetings, and agree or disagree, as I often do, they know their jobs and do what they have to do.

But I haven’t seen anything about their opponents, though I have heard about them.  And from what I’ve heard, it doesn’t sound like the  transparency issue that both sides always talk about, has  been completely thorough or in depth.

But some of it I know from covering meetings and events for other newspapers through the years. I certainly know the Eastern Monmouth Area Chamber of Commerce from years past.   And I know it was, at the time I was aware of it, a dynamic organization that involved so many businesses and offered so much help and events and meetings to keep them all successful.  I know it’s a thriving and wonderful organization right now and I continue to hear wonderful things about their events, their camaraderie, their successful plans for the future.

But sometime in between the time I was covering meetings and events, and the present successful era of the Chamber,  there was a time a woman was heading the Chamber. From what I understand it went down the tubes, was insolvent. Chamber members borrowed money to save it before it was gone completely.

Now I’m hearing that the head of that group at the time it was failing is a candidate for Council in Atlantic Highlands.  I question the veracity of that. The Chamber was successful, it suddenly went downhill, almost disappeared, and besides all that, some tax returns were never filed! And that’s a candidate for council in Atlantic Highlands? I heard after all this happened, the head of the Chamber was ousted, that she was going to sue if she didn’t get her insurance benefits…but that didn’t happen, it seems, because her contract spelled out what was hers upon termination…and insurance benefits were not listed. And now she is running for election in the  borough.

Could any or all of this be true? IF so, why wasn’t information about it part of the transparency people are always asking for.

I don’t know the council candidate running for office in the borough for the first time. Nor do I know her partner. To the best of my knowledge, I  never met either one of them. I do know I have not seen anything about their campaign on Facebook, but then I don’t visit Facebook very much. I also know they have never knocked on my door nor dropped off any literature for me to get to know them. I don’t recall either hearing their names as members of any committees or commissions, or organizations that assist others in town. They might well be there; it’s just that I don’t know them or what they do.

But if it’s true one of the two candidates really was head of a great group when it went under, oversaw or at least was head of the group when tax returns were not filed, and now wants to be on the council that runs my town, I truly wonder.