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Travel | Too Good to Turn Down

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I wrote this story for the Atlantic Highlands Herald https://www.ahherald.com/ back in 2015

Photo: Courtesy of Jane Frotton

 

It was just one of those trips that was too good to turn down!

 

An opportunity to go back to Greece, a country I first visited 30 years ago, see some of the Greek islands on a cruise ship, and also go into Turkey and visit some spots I only knew from reading the Bible!

 

Couple all of that with going with Nuovo Tours…whom I’ve long since known offer the most economical trips without sacrificing quality, some fine old friends and soon to be new friends from Our Lady of Perpetual Help/St. Agnes parish and 12 days led by Monsignor Salemi…who, anyone who went on the trip to Ireland already knew, guarantees a most enjoyable if not necessarily restful but always entertaining and educational trip…it was a must do.

 

Flying out of Philadelphia had the distinct advantage of a nonstop flight to Athens, a morning arrival and an immediate chance to get a quick tour through part of this very ancient yet still cosmopolitan city with its Syntagma Square and Tomb of the Unknown Soldier, the Plaka, the bustling, crowded but always fun crooked streets filled with souvenir shops selling everything from honey with walnuts to worry beads and sponges, and everything in between, including the embassies of many different countries.

 

For whatever reason, the guides like to point out while the British Embassy rises behind a small forest of tall trees, the American Embassy is the only one with a fence around it….”like a fortress,” we were told.

 

But rising above all this sprawl, looming high on hill overlooking the city, is the Parthenon and the ruins of three other buildings that were all part of the Golden Age of Greece nearly 2,500 years before Christ.

 

It’s a hike to the top of the Acropolis to be in the midst of this ancient wonder, but it’s unforgettable once you’ve been there. The Acropolis itself, a hill made mostly of limestone and featuring some pretty steep cliffs, has been a natural fortress throughout the centuries and has seen the Greeks battle the Persians, the Romans and the Ottomans before finally winning control and maintaining its place among the historic and beautiful monuments to gods and mankind.

 

There are writings about the Acropolis some 7,000 years before Christ from the very beginning of recorded time, so it was the natural spot for the Greeks to build their temples to their gods.

 

The view from the top is spectacular, looking down over the city…but then, the view from our hotel, with the buildings bathed in light against a starlit sky and full moon, is equally unforgettable.

 

The Parthenon stands at the highest point of the Acropolis and while wars, wind, rain and all the elements have left it in ruins today, you can imagine the grandeur and magnificence of the building which was almost as long as a football field, and about 100 feet wide.

 

There were more than 60 columns in the temple, all 30 feet high and six feet in diameter.

 

Though it was built as a temple to the goddess Athena, the patron of the city, the Parthenon was also used to store the city-state’s wealth in its day.

 

Checking into our hotel for the night, we learned we were not far from the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier, and could see the colorful and precise Evzone Guards, the elite infantry unit of the Greek Army very much like our elite soldiers who guard our Tomb of the Unknowns.

 

The Evzones, however, are clad in traditional pleated kilts, with white britches and pom-poms on their shoes, and march with a slow-motion, high-stepping strut that dates back to ancient times.

 

Anymore visitation in the city would have to wait until the last couple of days of the trip…we were bound for Port Lavrion, just outside the city in the morning to board a Greek cruise liner for another eight days of visiting islands and Ephesus and Istanbul in Turkey. Istanbul, by the way, is the only city in the world that spans two continents…so we spent time in both Europe and Asia on this trip.

Talking Turkey

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This story was originally posted in the Atlantic Highlands Herald, the nations first official online newspaper back in 2015

 

So, with a quick view of Athens behind us, and a great night’s sleep in a beautiful hotel right in the city, we boarded a bus for the short trip to Lavrion Harbor to meet our ship, the Celestyal Crystal, a Greek shipping liner that fortunately is considerably smaller than those floating feeding stations that accommodate thousands on 10 to 16 decks and long walks to restaurants and lounges. Another advantage to a smaller ship is hitting some of the islands the big boys can’t get into, which means fewer lines, smaller crowds, and friendlier natives.

 

But before even seeing more of Greece, we were treated to a charming cruise through the Dardanelles, that narrow strait that connects the Aegean Sea to the Sea of Marmara. Named for one of the mythical sons of Zeus, it’s 38 miles long but very narrow and up to 300 feet deep in some places. Water is flowing in both directions through the strait because of two different currents, which must make it kind of tricky for the captains.

 

It’s reported to be one of the most hazardous, most crowded and most potentially dangerous waterways in the world, but you’d never know all that from our cruise through. They said we were a bit late getting to Istanbul because of the tricky currents, but there again, a friendly, fun-loving and very efficient crew made up of people from all nations made it most enjoyable.

 

Before you arrive on land, you can see the bridge across the Bosporus that connects Asia and Europe, making Istanbul the only city in the world that spans two continents.

 

And what a city it is.

 

A Muslim nation, the people of Turkey are more anxious to show off their beautiful city, their ancient treasures and their wonderful families rather than talk about any differences in thought or creed, They’re warm hearted, friendly, smiling, and very welcoming to visitors.

 

As magnificent as their ancient wonders are, they are up to speed with modern conveniences as well. We had lunch at a Best Western, dining on peppers stuffed with rice, beans and black olives as an appetizer, then meatballs, chicken, Turkish potato salad, string beans, another mixture of fresh vegetables and lots of fruit…watermelon, honeydew, pears, peaches and grapes.

 

Clearly a must see in a city filled with castles and palaces, museums, and libraries, is Topkapi Palace, a sprawling series of walkways and courtyards connecting the several buildings that were once the residence of the conqueror, Mahmet II, who had it all built in the mid-1400s. That’s 700 years ago! First a residence, once a seat of government, at another time a school to train Turkish soldiers, it’s been a museum for most of the 20th century and remains a popular spot for visitor and tourist alike.

 

A day or a week isn’t enough to explore all of Topkapi, but you can get an idea of the wealth and traditions here as you stroll through rooms filled with collections…of ceramics and glass, arms and armor, clocks, manuscripts and costumes, more correctly the actual royal wear of the early Sultans.

 
 
 
 

Istanbul is also the home of the Haghia Sophia, or Church of Holy Wisdom which was built in the 6th century and is a living gorgeous tribute to architectural achievement. It was built on top of two churches which had been built in the 4th century, and is filled with magnificent Byzantine mosaics seen nowhere else.

 

Of course a visit to Istanbul also has to include a visit to the Bazaar, street after street filled with shops, vendors, hawkers, stalls and coffee shops, and where it’s possible to buy anything from exotic spices and teas to magnificent carpets and silks.

 

Crowded? Always!

 

Safe? Certainly seems that way!

 

Fun? Beyond a doubt! With only one day in Istanbul we headed back to the ship and a short cruise to Kusadasi, the second of three Turkish cities we visited, and once again were greeted by friendly folks happy to show off their country.

 

We arrived in Kusadasi in the morning, but had enough time for Msgr. Selemi, who accompanied the OLPH-St. Agnes group on the trip organized by Nuovo Tours, to offer mass aboard ship.

 

It was obvious from the number of crew members who attended the mass, simply offered on a table in the entertainment lounge, with pita bread and table wine consecrated by Selemi during the mass, it was a rare opportunity for them, and one they appreciated. For the passengers, it was a time to give thanks as well as hear some stirring words from Selemi on the sites we had seen, the sites we were still to see, and the Apostles who had walked the very same lands we were walking.

 

After walking through magnificent ruins built, like just about everything else, on the side or top of mountains, and seeing the incredible construction that was done thousands of years ago with primitive tools and lots of manpower, we arrived at Ephesus, one of the greatest ruined cities of the western world, built by the Greeks more than 1,000 years before Christ but now part of turkey after centuries of rule under different nations depending on the outcome of various wars.

 

The highlight here, however, was not of war, soldiering, or architecture. Ephesus is reported to be the city where St. John took the Mother of God after Christ’s crucifixion and cared for her for the rest of her time on earth.

 

That…and the miracle I believe I witnessed there…..is another story.

 

Photos by Jane Frotton

McFly’s-Fitness Center-Lighthouse Week

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There are always so many more things that make me happy, and that’s the same for everyone, if each should took two minutes a day to think of them. Whether it’s a smile from a stranger, the sight of a couple of puppies playing together, the joy of hearing a bird singing in the trees, they all make us happy. Stop to realize it and the happiness is doubled. Narrowing it down to three today was first, hearing the news that McFly’s on the Hook is open every day now and owner Barney is as genial and friendly as ever. Take advantage of these sunshine-filled days and go over to Sandy Hook, go out past MAST…admiring the work being done on that dilapidated former barracks that will soon be the NJROTC Center for Mast… and before you get to the Lighthouse, find McFly‘s on the Hook, enjoy a great sandwich or a milkshake and let him know how happy you are you can finally get some great snacks on the Hook. It’s a great place. Second to make me happy early this morning was seeing how neat and clean the Fitness Center on Route 36 at the edge of Highlands looks every day. There was once again a hard working team out there ensuring the grass is mowed and there’s absolutely no trash anywhere around. They do a great job, and the businesses in that mall appreciate it, I’m sure. As a consumer, I certainly do. Third today was hearing the Monmouth County Library is having what’s being termed a “Lighthouse Week” at the beginning of June featuring the talks of several historians and professionals on different lighthouses. The talks, including one on the Twin Lights by its own great historian Nick Wood, have been presented virtually in recent weeks, but Laura Migliore, the Program Director for the County libraries, indicated they’ve all been so popular they’re going to be featured again for all those who missed the first presentations. Look for the dates of that, or simply go to monmouthcountylib.org, scroll over to Upcoming Events and check them out. While you’re there, look at some of the other fantastic programs the library offers. What a team they have. Check back on Veni, Vidi, Scripto for a series of articles soon on everything that made me happy during a week’s cruise on the Chesapeake aboard American Cruise Lines’ Independence! What a gorgeous country we have! And how much I learned about crabs and ‘picking.” And some more facts about the American Revolution in Yorktown and Williamsburg! And what a pleasant and wonderful surprise to learn you’re traveling with a couple of former famous local folks you haven’t seen in 30 or more years, just happened to be coming from Florida for the same trip! You never can tell.!

Vegetables, Honey Do’s & Your Invited!

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Just got back from a week’s cruise on the Chesapeake learning more about the Revolution and came back to four incredibly wonderful things happening right here at home! My son Jimbo had another huge box of fresh vegetables and fruits of all kinds delivered to me, ensuring I stay on my healthy diet to help macular degeneration; my daughter Tracie did lots of little things around my house, plus left a gorgeous bouquet of flowers to welcome me home; son-in-law Chris created a garden, feeding station and lounge area for me in a snug little outdoor corner, all of which remind me once again how very kind and thoughtful my family is!

 

Then to top it off while I was away, Jane Frotton and others were continuing to keep busy on the Thursday night Birthday Celebration for Assemblywoman Serena DiMaso we’ve all been planning to help raise funds for her successful primary battle followed by her easier victory come November and it’s going just terrific! Wonderful to see how many supporters Serena has and will be even better to see them all at the Shore Casino, a spectacular Atlantic Highlands spot to celebrate anything…or just to have fun!~. Let me know if you want tickets…$50 includes those sensational Casino hors d’oeuvers (when there are that many do you still call them hors d’ouevres?) coffee bar, dessert, the chance to say Happy Birthday to Serena. Oh yeah, there is a cash bar as well!

Readers Make Me Happy!

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To the Reader who was so sharp and reads each article so closely. Thanks so much for the tip on reversing the order of articles in each section, so the newest appear first. I’ve made the change with deep appreciation. Because even though you know me well enough to call me Veni, I’d hate for you to have to read some of my articles twice before finding something new! And don’t worry, there will be enough new stuff here. Ah, the Mayor’s really nice, I don’t think she’ll run me out right away!.

Playing the Ponies

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It wasn’t Churchill Downs and it wasn’t Mint Juleps but friends Muriel Smith, Debbie Appello, Brenda Hotchkiss and Jane Frotton enjoyed a great Derby evening with a great waitress, Laura, at the Harborside Inn Sunday evening

Subscribers, Atlantic Highlands Art Alliance & Ice Cure

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Three things that made me happy today….and I had to work hard to narrow it down to three…. Seeing so many people subscribe to my Veni Vidi Scripto blog at https://6001f9f5595f3.site123.me/; Seeing some of the magnificent art work at the Atlantic Highlands Art Alliance museum and shop on First Avenue, And Zooming with my dear friends at

 

in Israel who I know are as excited as I am that next week marks five years since their magic potion cured my breast cancer without any surgery. But I’ll have more on that in a future Veni Vidi column.

Reader Participation

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Although good things happen every day that keep me happy, it’s because there are so many of them that I don’t always take the time to stop and narrow down the daily list to just three. But big or small, each is always something that makes a difference in my day. Now it’s your turn! Send me the three things that made you happy today. Mine today are both big and small happinesses! I enjoyed a wonderful evening out with three friends at our Thursday night ritual at the Proving Ground in Highlands where we enjoy an evening of wine, whining, and winning solutions to whatever bothers us.. We can accomplish that every week. Two: Being able to hear from Monmouth County Clerk Christine Hanlon how much she enjoyed this year’s Mock Jury contest by high school students from across the county. Christine recalled when she herself was the volunteer who coordinated all these magnificent events for students as a most unique extracurricular activity. Three: I have some very hungry and very friendly squirrels who either climb up the column or run up the 16 steps to my apartment in the trees to take advantage of the peanuts and corn cobs I put out for their enjoyment! Now they just sit and look at me as I open the door to drop out a fresh supply for hungry diners. I swear they’re smiling and syaing thank you!

Kindness, Hot Rod Charlie & Kennedy and Vine

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As you already know, there are many more than three things every day that make me happy, I just don’t always take the time to list them, though I always appreciate them. But today, by 9 a.m, I already had more than half a dozen things that brought a smile to my face, made me happy, and once again made me appreciate everything I have and all the wonderful people that surround me. I needed air in my tires, and working the free air machine at the Route 36 Highlands gas station isn’t one of my talents. But not one, but two men came over to help. Call it sexist, but this female was very appreciative, especially after I apologized for not being that talented, one of the man said to me, “that’s ok, I don’t know how to change a tire!” Then leaving the parking lot at the Route 36 Fitness Center, I couldn’t help but notice the half dozen hard working men who were mowing the lawn, planting flowers and generally cleaning up a mall area that always looks inviting, clean, and colorful. Back at home, I had two squirrels waiting on the steps for their anticipated treats…they run up the steps to the landing and patiently wait until I drop a couple of peanuts, then hop up on the railing so I can enjoy watching them chew, enjoy, and mess up my porch with the shells! That was ok, though, because I also heard to sparrows in the bush waiting for me to fill the feeder! The little varmints all have me trained! And in today’s Kentucky Derby, Hot Rod Charley is my favorite, not because of the French jockey, who won the last Derby by default if you remember all of that! Interestingly enough, the favorite is ridden by the jockey who lost in that awful race! But every Gamecock will be cheering on Hot Rod Charley because of the story behind it. The owner, trainer and University of South Carolina football coach all got together because a friend wanted to do something more, and they wanted to help, to memorialize his son. Seems Dad is a Gamecock alumnus, and his two sons always wanted to be as well. But one of the teenagers was tragically killed by a drunk driver, and the parents set up a scholarship fund for walk-on football players at South Carolina. Hot Rod Charley is wearing a Game Cock blanket today, and helping to support that scholarship fund and a soon to be football player who missed out on selection or scholarship. Not crazy about the egotistical rider, but hope he wins this one. Then there’s that new indoor plant store that’s opening with a formal ribbon cutting my Mayor Gluckstein next weekend. Kennedy and Vine sounds like a great place for everything from potting soil and pots to indoor blooms and..I would expect…vines! Says a lot for the gumption and drive of a business owner to be able to open a new business during this Covid stuff. And a lot for First Avenue in Atlantic Highlands for being the kind of town and location new shop owners want to come to.

Above the Fray

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Living in a small town! Living in a small town like Highlands and Atlantic Highlands. Knowing you’re living in the best part of Monmouth County and New Jersey. I lived in Highlands all my adult life until my husband and I took off for ten years in an RV we gave ourselves on our 40th wedding anniversary. I lived in Atlantic Highlands not quite two years, but knew is well and knew its people well from shopping, socializing, and covering meetings and meeting the people who made this town great. So while I saw on Facebook today there are different opinions on what’s great about Highlands, I’ll put that aside for a minute to concentrate on what really made me happy today and made me realize, once again, how terrific small towns in general are. Taking a friend who doesn’t drive to her doctor’s appointment just outside of Atlantic Highlands, it was wonderful to hear how compassionate the doctor was, how he listened so attentively to her problems, how he sympathized with her aches and pains and reassured her that no, she isn’t the only one suffering some depression from the Covid situation and cancellation of social activities. He told her he was going to call in a prescription for one of her problems, answered all her questions, said a cheery goodbye and sent us on our way. We made that second appointment, again praising the doctor for his knowledge, expertise, but genuine concern for his patient. There was no rush, no in-and-out, here’s your bill here. This is a doctor who loves his patients. Granted it was only minutes, but knowing how good this doctor is, and how great Bayshore Pharmacy is, we changed stopping in the drug store just to see how long it would be before she could pick up her prescription. About three minutes if you want to wait, pharmacist Scott Eagleton said. Three minutes! That meant, not only had the doctor immediately called in the prescription, but the pharmacist received it and was working on it. And if I couldn’t wait, he would also deliver it. Where does that happen anyplace else but in a small town like Atlantic Highlands, in a pharmacy where they have been prepared for months to accept the vaccine and really help out all their neighbors, only to be put on a waiting list while the big dogs got their supplies. Seeing all the good that came first from the doctor, next from the pharmacist, it was easy to be happy, and easier yet to wipe out the memories of the criticism by some of Highlands, and what people who just moved in think of people who have lived there a lifetime. And convinced me once again that the place my husband and I chose to bring up our family, the friends I’ve made, the opportunities I’ve had, the way my life has grown simply because I live in this wonderful Bayshore is enough to make me happy every day!