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Sustainable Atlantic Highlands … True Leadership

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The borough of Atlantic Highlands not only retained certification but received it at a higher level and topped it off with also receiving the Small Town Champion Award from Sustainable Jersey, a major accomplishment that seems to have gotten little recognition and certainly no fanfare.

The borough doesn’t know yet whether Councilman James Murphy or Councilwoman Lori Hohenleitner will be the next Mayor. Nor does it know whether Ellen O’Dwyer and Coach Whitehead or Allison Forbes and Jon Crowley will be the council members for the next three years, though Councilman Crowley seems almost certain to be selected for another term. Hopefully by sometime next week, the results will be finalized and announced.

But aside from the politics of the situation, let’s take a look at Ellen O’Dwyer and what her quiet, unannounced, little-talked-about efforts have done for the borough’s image.

Literally.

Sustainable Jersey is a state-wide organization that certifies municipalities who are the nation’s leaders in implementing solutions for challenges to reduce waste and cut greenhouse gas emissions.

Municipalities also must certify they have taken measures to improve public health among other things, which also stimulates the local economy and offers grants to accomplish even more for a borough. Just about every municipality in New Jersey is registered with Sustainable Jersey, but not many have achieved the successes that Atlantic Highlands has.

Awards this year were presented by Christine Guhl-Sadovy, President, New Jersey Board of Public Utilities.

Enter Ellen O’Dwyer, one of the candidates waiting to see if she has been elected to council.  Currently, Ellen chairs the borough’s GREEN TEAM, a quiet but hardworking group of dedicated residents following Ellen’s penchant for getting things done.  That’s why the borough has been certified for several cycles and last year got the Bronze award, no small accomplishment.  She is also a former Environmental Commissioner and former Shade Tree Commissioner, both of which she feels were important experiences in order to have achieved what she did with the Green Team.

This year this ambitious group aimed for the silver award it received, an award that mandated achieving more than twice as many points as the Bronze award.  But they also were awarded the champion Award for being the very best Small town; a community under 5,000 residents in New Jersey …. for sustainability.

Sustainable Jersey, under the Sustainability Institute at The College of New Jersey, doesn’t make it easy to achieve their awards. They set a high bar and have an entire team of professionals who verify what each town says it has done.

Ellen and her team could have simply settled for their bronze award. Each award is good for three years, so maintaining bronze is in itself an accomplishment. But she’s a driver and passionate about the environment. She served for a year on the Beautification Committee and Environmental commission before Mayor Loretta Gluckstein had faith in her enthusiasm and named her to the Shade Tree as well as the Green Team Committee, an advisory group to the governing body.

In the past, the borough was interested in maintaining its certification as a member of Sustainable Jersey, but Ellen strove to go higher. She did a lot of research and found that as far as recycling and reusing goes, the borough has done an awful lot over the years, thanks to a great Public Works Department and residents who take pride in their neighborhood. But moving higher and better seemed like a better idea, so Ellen did more research and documented all the accomplishments and memorialized them into programs. That is what earned the Bronze medal last year.

This year, rather than simply being recognized for maintaining the bronze status, taking the silver award also enabled the borough to receive the Small Town Champion award.

“We could have rested on our laurels for three years, but we didn’t.,” the chairman said.  “Atlantic Highlands deserves the credit for all the work that it is already doing, and with a community whose heart is in it.  We went for Silver and achieved it in one year by completing some innovative projects, like being the first community to adopt a ban on plastic straws and bags and partnering with a local company on biodegradable packaging solutions.  We applied for and received two grants, educated on native species, shared wildflowers and milkweed, and encouraged green solutions to anything and everything,” The Captain of the Green Team explained.

At the League of Municipalities annual event in Atlantic City, Sustainable Jersey had a luncheon to honor all the municipalities who received honors. In her acceptance talk, in which she praised both Sustainable Jersey’s efforts and her own team and borough residents Ellen said  “We’ve got a real “walking” town where the sidewalk outside your door can lead you to anywhere you would want to go in the borough, and our tree-lined streets are the result of our Tree City USA commitment of 42 years. We also established new and innovative ways to reach and educate the public, having a column in the local Atlantic Highlands Living magazine, hosting our first “Envirossance Faire” and an “Earth Day Walkabout” where visitors walked to various “Green Stops” throughout town.

She explained that with limited resources, “we networked beyond the borough teams and commissions to collaborate with the local arts council, the library, the schools, scouts, Chamber of Commerce, Garden Club, and even the Historical Society. With a new organization called “Wild About Atlantic Highlands”, the entire town is a Certified Wildlife Habitat with the National Wildlife Federation.  This involved 100 residential and business gardens. “

Ellen added, that “with other programs like “No Mow May”, “Grass – Cut it and Leave It”, “Don’t Spray,” and Leave the Leaves”, we’ve got the public to learn, engage, and commit to being stewards of our beautiful town.”

Lest anyone think she is content with simply garnering the Best Small Town and silver swards, Ellen put the League on notice that “We are now aiming for “Gold Star”, which will set a new precedent for small, historic communities with classic infrastructure.  I will leverage this status and other tactics to elevate Atlantic Highlands as a unique entity to preserve this unique ecosystem of mountains to bayside beaches to forested lands in the face of potential overdevelopment.”

Looking towards the future, another of Ellen’s aims is to save and protect the water utility through grants and other support.  Municipalities can play a significant role in creating a comprehensive approach to the management of water, she believes. Each municipality in the state has its own water profile, shaped by its geography, infrastructure and local concerns. The gold star in water identifies specific actions and level of performance for municipalities to achieve improvements in water quality, quantity and use.

There are only four municipalities in the state with a gold star: Maplewood Twp, Princeton, Readington Twp, and Woodbridge Twp, which has two Gold Stars.

The Sustainability Champions this year, in addition to Atlantic Highlands, are Madison for populations from 5,000 to 40,000 and Woodbridge for municipalities with more than 40,000 population.

Members of the borough’s Green Team with O’Dwyer are Ashely Cruz, Blake Deakin, Morgan Spicer, Ellen Bollinger, Jim Krauss and Sara Colasurdo, with Councilwoman Hohenleitner the council representative.

Knowing Ellen O’Dwyer, knowing how hard she works once she sets her mind on a goal, and knowing the Green Team’s efforts, it’s a prediction that next year, Atlantic Highlands will be honored with the gold award.

Judging from her energy level and the hard-working GREEN TEAM, together with residents proud of their community, it will not come as any surprise when Atlantic Highlands reaches the gold next year.

 

The Holiday in Highlands

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Highlands is preparing to welcome family, friends and; newcomers to its series of free events this holiday season, an opportunity to gather and experience  annual holiday traditions with  local organizations.

The Christmas holiday season begins with the 26th Annual Holiday Tree Lighting on Friday, December 1, with a rain date of December 2, in Huddy Park at Bay and Waterwitch Avenues.

Santa and Mrs. Claus will be riding their sleigh around town beginning at 5PM, arriving at Huddy Park at 5:45PM. Mayor Carolyn Broullon and council members will light the tree promptly at 6PM.   The Highlands Recreation Department will provide hot chocolate and cookies.

The Henry Hudson Regional School Choir will  perform under the direction of Band Director and Music Teacher, Nicholas McGill. Dancers from the Carol Elaine Dance Studio will perform and there will be caroling by local Girl Scout Troops, 223 and 273. There will be free horse and carriage rides courtesy of Valley Bank, Highlands. Holiday music will be provided by sponsor, WRAT 95.9. All are welcome to attend.

The Highlands Business Partnership also announces that, In the Garden, located at 69 Waterwitch Avenue, is a sponsor of the annual events and offers fresh trees, wreaths, roping, flowers, gifts and so much more for home décor.

The Highlands Business Partnership’s 11th Annual Holiday Lights Contest is a perfect way to show off Community pride and light up the Holiday season. The contest is open to every home within Highlands Borough limits. Interested participants can enter online at www.highlandsnj.com; submissions must be received by December 14 by 5:00PM.

Judging will take place Friday, December 15 and prizes will be awarded.

If you would like to participate in judging the Holiday Lights contest, please contact the Partnership at hbpadmin@highlandsnj.com.

The Baymen’s Protective Association, Knights of Columbus Rev. Joseph J. Donnelly Council and the Highlands Fire Department will host their Annual Free Pancake Breakfast with Santa on Sunday, December 10 between 9AM and noon, at our Lady of Perpetual Help Church Hall on Highland Avenue and Miller St. The event is free and open to the public. Please bring a donation of canned or non-perishable food items.

The Highlands Fire Department will host its annual Visit with Santa – Toys for Tots program on Sunday, December 17 at 1PM at the Highlands Fire House located at 171 Shore Drive. The event is free and open to the public. Please bring an ornament for Daniel Barden’s Christmas Tree (no glass please). After the children place the ornaments on the tree, the Highlands Fire Department will bring the tree to the Daniel Barden Where Angels Play Playground in Veterans Park, in memory of Daniel.

The Recreation Department will host a Holiday Gift Wrapping event at the Robert G. Wilson Memorial Community Center, 22 Snug Harbor Ave. Gift wrapping is available December 11h through the 21st. The department will provide wrapping paper, or you can bring your own. For information on times, please call 732-872-1224 ext. 232.

Santa is Coming to Bayshore Pharmacy

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Bayshore Pharmacy Card and Gift Shop will host a Holiday Open House on Saturday, December 2 from noon to 2pm with a guest appearance from Santa!  It’s the perfect time to grab your holiday list, visit Santa for holiday cheer and shop local this season for toys, gifts and clothing for the family all with complimentary gift wrapping.

Meet local author Lori Herschkowitz-Skala for a book signing of her new book The Road to Rosie from Ruff to Rescue!  Lori is a cancer survivor and donates proceeds of her book to cancer research and animal rescue.

Visit the Sister Squad Crafts table for handmade holiday ornaments for the whole family and have your gift personalized in time for the holidays!

Bayshore Pharmacy Cards and Gifts, located in the Foodtown Plaza in Atlantic Highlands, is a locally owned, full-service pharmacy, specializing in compounded prescriptions, immunizations, and insurance billing. Serving the area for 60 years and two generations, Bayshore Pharmacy also provides the area’s largest card and gift shop, offering plenty of parking and delivery service 7 days a week.

4,000 Aves and a Dog Named Floppy

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Did Saying 4,000 Aves Work?

With Advent starting on Sunday, marking the four weeks before Christmas, I was once again reminded of the year I vowed to say 4,000 Aves between that Sunday and Christmas Eve.

Growing up, we always had at least one dog, always a large one, either an Irish Setter, German Shepherd or a mixed breed of similar size.

But my father died when I was nine, nine days before Christmas, and when our last dog also died, my mother said no more. It was enough raising four youngsters, maintaining a house and starting out a new life as a widowed mother, though she never once complained.

Undeterred, I remembered a story in my reader at St. Michael’s School in Union about a youngster who wanted something for Christmas and was told if he said four thousand Aves, or Hail Mary’s, during Advent, his wish would be granted.

If it worked for him in fiction, it could work for me in real life, I explained to my mother, making the grand announcement I would be saying 4,000 Hail Mary’s and we would have a dog.

My mother smiled, praised me for my promise to pray so much, but gently told me we would not be getting a dog.

For the next four weeks, I diligently kept at my prayers. I figured it out mathematically if I said 15 decades of the Rosary every day for 26 days, plus a few extra Hail Mary’s every couple of days, I’d make it.

In the beginning, my enthusiasm and determination made it easy. However, as the weeks went on, schoolwork, playtime, and getting ready for Christmas made it difficult. Some days I missed my mark. I’d make it up the next day, I told myself. Sometimes I did, sometimes I didn’t.

By Christmas Eve afternoon, I was still short of a few hundred Hail Mary’s. I began saying them quicker, with less of a prayerful countenance, and simply zipping through the words. My mother reminded me if I weren’t prayerful, the prayers wouldn’t count. Besides, she reminded me, she had told me in the beginning there would be no dog.

We finished setting up the huge stable in the late afternoon, a stable with huge figures that had been in the family since my parents married and were part of our Christmas tradition for as long as I could remember. My sister and brothers went out for last minute visits or gift wrapping with friends and I was alone with my mother. She noticed the stable was missing straw for the mange where we would put the Christ Child, so she told me to set the table for dinner and she would be right back.

Our house was in Union a few blocks from where Kean College is now. In the 1940s, that ground was actually a farm where we often went to pet the horses, see the cows or purchase eggs. My mother wanted to stop in there to get the straw for our manger scene and said she would be back in 15 minutes.

I set the table, all the while saying my Hail Mary’s and wondering how good God was in counting or if He would cut a break for a ten-year-old kid who really wanted a dog.

When my mother came home with the straw, she also had a little bundle of black and white in her arms.  It whimpered, it yipped, and it struggled to get down on the floor.  It was a beautiful little black and white puppy!

“I didn’t mean to get it,” my mother explained. “But Mr. Hughes, the farmer, asked if I could take it home.” The puppy was the last in a litter of ten, the others were all sold or given away, and the puppy’s mother was abandoning the runt.  He wouldn’t have time to take care of it, he said, and pressed my mother into taking it home at least over the holiday.  “She’s not staying,” she said sternly, “we’ll find a home for her after Christmas.”

I never finished my Aves. Nor did my mother ever try to give the puppy away. She was cute, cuddly, loved everyone in the family, but was difficult to train. Because of that, my mother gave her the name Floppy because “she just flopped all over the house.”

Floppy over the next years had two litters of puppies of her own, about ten in each litter. All found happy homes. So did Floppy.  She was definitely a part of our family for more than ten years until she in her sleep and went on to Dog Heaven.

As each of the four of us finished school and left home to start lives and families of our own, Floppy and my mother became inseparable…so much so that when my own children were born, Grandma wasn’t just Grandma….she was Grandma Floppy.

And I finished my Four Thousand Aves in thanks.

 

Although this is a true story, Christmas Legends of the Bayshore by Muriel J Smith is available for sale at venividiscripto.com, a book of legends in Monmouth County.  Read about Jimmy’s Friend at the Waterwitch Beach, the Legend of the Bridge, a Prayer for the Second Osprey, and 20 other stories about the Atlantic Highlands Yacht Club, squirrels, cardinals, pine cones starfish and Christmas trees and more. The book was written for a Grandma to read to her Grandchildren on Christmas Eve or anytime a youngster needs cuddling and love.

 Volunteers for Clean Ocean Action

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Volunteers Wanted

Clean Ocean Action is looking for volunteers for the Rally for the Two Rivers project they do in conjunction with the New Jersey Department of Environmental Protection.

The purpose of the Rally is to help address and improve water quality within the watershed of the Navesink and Shrewsbury rivers so close to so many homes in the Bayshore and beyond.

Volunteers will be trained to become community scientists by collecting water samples.  Samples are collected weekly on Wednesdays from 7:30 to 9:30 a.m. in the Navesink watershed and biweekly in the Shrewsbury watershed on Tuesdays during those same hours.

Clean Ocean Action volunteers will train in how to collect the samples, safety in the process as well as providing a lot of background information and resources so volunteers feel a huge part of this community project.

The goal of the program is to find a fix to pollution problems by encouraging all the municipalities to work together and address these issues. The community scientists…all those volunteers taking samples…must be at least 18 years old to participate and attend the training session to be sure they all know all the benefits of their volunteer work.

Email programs@cleanoceanaction.org or call 732-872-0112 to sign up or get more details.

Clean Ocean Action offers a special program for professionals who teach in the 5th through 8th grades. They have the opportunity to take their students on a free and educational field trip to the beach during their Sprin Student Summit program at Gateway National Recreation Area on Sandy Hook. The program is May 15 or 16 and the kids get some spectacular hands-on environmental sessions. Applications have to be filled out by April 15, but don’t wait that long to put this in your plana for offering the best possible education for your students. Check out Education@cleanoceanaction.org  and email Kristen Grazioso, the volunteer coordinator for more info.

 

Past Stories on Clean Ocean Action HERE

 

Pat and Dick Stryker – Happy Anniversary!

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  Happy Anniversary!

Thanksgiving is a joyful and happy day for everyone but Nov. 27 is an even more special day for Pat and Dick Stryker. The former Atlantic Highlands Mayor and his wife Pat are celebrating their 71st wedding anniversary this year and still delight in telling the story of how they met.

Congratulations to one terrific couple who raised a great family, established a most popular and well-run store in their Bayshore Pharmacy in the Foodtown Mall on Route 36 at First Avenue, and contributed so much to the Bayshore they both love.

Speaking of Bayshore Pharmacy, congratulations also to Ellen who does all the planning and ordering for the fantastic gift section of the shop that is as busy as the Pharmacy section. Love the way she has arranged the hundreds … or is it thousands…of items they have for all their unusual gifts. It’s probably the largest collection of Irish-themed ideas outside of Dublin, and the collection of fun and  educational toys for kids is unique. Of course they also feature lots of books by local authors, and plenty of things for the newly married couple, the sports fan and so much more. Rather than battling crowds and parking cars far from the entrance to a huge store, Bayshore Pharmacy offers close parking and when you’re in there with a crowd, they are your neighbors, the friendly people you like to meet and greet.

Kalian Building Falls Short

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Kalian Building Falls Short

At the end of a planning board meeting that was adjourned at 11:30 p.m. Tuesday, the Planning Board voted to deny Kalian Associates the necessary variances to construct the high rise on First Avenue adjacent to the current Kalian building nearing completion. Only planning board member Dave Kupinski voted against the motion.

Members heard both from the professionals for the owner as well as local residents who stayed until past the 11th hour to hear the results and express their own opinions.

Planning Board Chairman John McGoldbrick was generous with praise and thanks to the Kalian team, the residents and the planning board members for their professionalism, hard work and interest in the four-story building that would have changed the face of that end of First Avenue considerably.

Planners made the determination that the presentations failed to meet the specifics of the Master Plan both for its positive and its negative impacts on the borough.

The applicant was charged to meet both positive and negative stands, and the planning board members apparently did not feel they met both when the matter was fully evaluated and all presentations and impacts were considered.

Andrew Thomas, whose firm is in Brielle, explained he had helped write the borough’s Master Plan which was adopted in 2019, “not too long ago in planning time,” he said. He pointed out the goal of the Plan was “to limit future development and population density”  A primary goal to protect and continue the small town character of the borough.  The theme of the Master Plan, he continued, is to limit future development and noted the number of areas in which the applicant was seeking variances, from a higher elevation, to increasing parking issues, and increased density.  He pointed out among the negative criteria that the proposed building only offered approximately 5 per cent use of the first level for retail shops, with the vast majority allocated to parking and a gym for the residential units.

At least three persons spoke during the public hearing which did not start until 11 p.m., with James Krauss, chairman of the environmental commission, calling on the board to “slaughter the hog,” using Wall Street terminology that includes bulls and bears make money, an analogy that brought criticism from a local resident who is also employed by Kalian.

Resident Mark Fisher, who, like Krauss, has attended every meeting on the application and is known for researching all his information, also thanked Kalian for the beauty of the architecture and the design, but added, “This is not beautiful for Atlantic Highlands.” He agreed that if approved, “people would get used to it,” but reminded the property owner that “something more traditional for Atlantic Highlands would be better.”

Board members gave their reasons for their opinions, McGoldbrick called for a vote, and the possibility of this Kalian project being constructed on First and East Gatfield Avenues was put to rest.

 

Want to Read All the Stories on the Kalian Project?  Click HERE

Councilman Dougherty – Should or Shall?

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Dougherty – It’s Immaterial

Atlantic Highlands Councilman Brian Dougherty is really smart. He’s also really dedicated to the town. He truly, it seems, wants to do the very best for the town and works hard at doing just that. He’s truly a very nice man and a wonderful neighbor.

It’s for all those reasons that it was so difficult to hear him spiel out six changes he apparently had inserted in the all-important amendment to the ordinance governing development and design in the historic and business areas of the borough. Not that he did it alone; certainly, the professional who worked on the code was involved.

Yet Dougherty called the changes “immaterial.” Surprisingly, he apparently thinks it is immaterial whether a builder, certainly out to make money, is told he MUST do certain things in order to get approval, or he SHOULD do them.  Then again, if it is immaterial, why put it in at all?

And why think about this at the last minute. Did not he, and all the other council members, actually read the ordinance before they introduced it? Didn’t they approve advertising it so the audience could see it as well? Don’t they all think the public has the right to see the ENTIRE ordinance, not wonder what changes are going to be made AFTER it’s been advertised for them to read in its totality?

The borough has to advertise proposed ordinances in advance so the residents have a chance to look at what is proposed and can ask intelligent questions at the public hearing. But when changes are made after the introduction and only read out quickly at the very onset of the public hearing, it smacks of not caring whether the residents get the whole picture.

It also makes one wonder what else gets changed without their being told. What other “immaterial” things are done without the public knowing them? For that matter, what is the definition of “immaterial.” ?

IF one were purchasing a car, and the finance company regulations said monthly payments SHALL be made on the first of every month, purchasers react a heck of a lot differently than if they were told they SHOULD make those payments on the first of every month.

Mr. Dougherty also said we’re not Cape May or Princeton and he is absolutely right on that. We do not have specifics as to precise paint, height, depth, or decoration. “This is the first step,” he said.

But we ARE Atlantic Highlands. We know what the town looks like now and we know people move here because they like the way it looks now.  So why not say SHALL instead of SHOULD? Why do we have to take “one step” leading to something bigger and better in the future? Why not simply take the better step first and save time, energy and money? It certainly isn’t because the borough needs more high rises, more apartment dwellers, more drains on the water and sewer systems which come with bigger residential and commercial buildings.

Sorry, Councilman Dougherty. You’re wise and thoughtful. But you insult my intelligence when you decide to make changes you don’t even give me a chance to read, research and digest without asking a single question before you try to make them into law.

Apparently, all but one of the rest of the council members present also think the way residents and at least one planning board member think do.  To a resident’s way of thinking, they were the wise ones this time. They wanted to listen to what the public want’s this time.

Ordinance Tabled in Atlantic Highlands

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Ordinance Tabled

After recommendations from local residents, including a Councilman’s wife and a member of the Planning Board and at least two other residents, Councilwoman Lori Hohenleitner, saying she felt residents at the Council meeting expressed concerns that should be addressed, made the motion to table the proposed ordinance that amended development and design of new construction in the business and historic districts.

In voting to study the proposed ordinance rather than approve it that this meeting, Hohenleitner also told Councilman Brian Dougherty “I can’t look at you right now.”

Dougherty, who is the council representative to the planning board, had presented detailed explanations and reasons for the ordinance earlier, after also announcing what he termed six “immaterial” changes to the ordinance since it was advertised and introduced.  Two of those six changes took out the word “Shall” as advertised and replaced it with “should.”  The change means the specified regulations are merely a recommendation, not a requirement for approval.

The vote was the first time Democrats split in their decision making, with Council members Vito Colasurdo and Eileen Cusack voting with Hohenleitner to postpone final approval, and Councilman James Murphy, the only Republican on council, voting with Doughtery indicating both wanted final action at the meeting.

According to the advertised ordinance, amendments were being made due to “recent developments in the area regulated by the Historic Business District and the Commercial Business District zones that have been contrary to the goals of the Master Plan.” However, Dougherty said there were no specific developments that came to mind that brought about the proposed amendments.

Residents also pointed out several sections that were not clear in the proposed ordinance due to apparent insufficient proofreading or close reading by any council member before voting on it for introduction or public hearing.

Planning Board member Katrina Majewski also asked that approval be delayed. She recommended changes and called the current proposal “vague.”

“The design portion really misses the mark,” Majewski told the governing body, “a lot of the ordinance is subjective….we can do better.”  She also recommended that regulations for regulating density and specifics in design should be separated, and her preference to see a code more “people-centric” than building-centric. She explained people have expressed concern about safety, transportation, and other safety and local issues that are not addressed in the building code.

Mark Fisher did not get any response to the e-mail he indicated he had sent to each council-member prior to the meeting, questioning several portions of the proposed code and asking for more specifics in some areas, “There are still too many questions,” Fisher said, “it should be postponed. Why create problems for the Planning Board?”

Sara Colosaurdo, whose husband is a member of council, also requested the proposed amendments be postponed for further study and also asked that more attention be given to public concerns including comfort in walking in the area. “The planning Board is trying to figure out what they don’t like about a construction.” They are worried, she said, about size and corners and other aspects and said the borough is putting on “a bunch of band aids” rather than seeking out root causes for residents’ concerns, describing the residents as the stakeholders in the borough.

Dougherty said, “We are not Princeton, we are not Cape May….” indicating there are no hard and fast regulations for specific types of construction in an area. “This is the first step.”

With only one more Council meeting before the new administration takes place January 1, the ordinance will not be reviewed again until the new Mayor and Council, as well as the new Planning Board and its recently named study committee review it sometime in 2024.

 

More on the Atlantic Highlands Governing Body HERE

Saint Vincent dePaul and Saint Agnes

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Saint Vincent dePaul Society

There’s more than gift giving around the Saint Vincent dePaul Giving Tree at Saint Agnes Church. There’s a bit of Christmas spirit surrounding it and a history of three generations of a family making sure it’s perfect every year.

The Saint Vincent dePaul Society invites everyone to contribute gift cards at the Church before December 3.  Society members then distribute the cards to families in need who have signed up for assistance or need some help in providing Christmas for their families.

In the past, parishioners and other friends have donated wrapped gifts for those in need; however, when everyone realized it was both more practical and time saving to give families gift cards instead of wrapped gifts, they changed to the appreciation of many families.

A Christmas Tree goes up in the small room off the min foyer of Saint Agnes Church, is decorated, and there is a container where people can drop gift cards from any store, including toy and gift stores, food stores, on line sores or clothing stores.

Saint Vincent dePaul Society members accept the cards until December 3, then set a specific date shortly thereafter when they can present the cards to parents in time for families to do their own shopping.

The first spirit of Christmas you notice along with the generosity of local residents, is the tree itself.

Agatha Emmer, an Ocean Blvd resident, cannot even remember how long she had decorated the tree in mid or late November to have it in the Church for a few weeks before the December 3 deadline for accepting gift cards. But she remembers her twin daughters, Mary Lenskold of Lincroft and Anna Russo of Bridgewater, always come down to help. The tradition expanded to the third generation as well so that now whichever of Agatha’s eight granddaughters is available, also comes to help decorate the Saint Agnes tree. This year, granddaughter Kelsey Guthrie of Middletown was on hand to help with the event.

Neil and Sharon Riley are also part of the Gift Giving Tree decoration. The couple come every year to help the Emmer family decorate…” we just couldn’t do it without them,” Agatha said, noting how the couple add their own laughter and enthusiasm for the festivities.

Even the tree itself has a story, Agatha laughed. In the past, the tree was in the sanctuary at Saint Agnes, and a former pastor suggested it be moved to its own special room that was convenient for all coming into church.  The tree was almost trashed at that point, but Agatha saw some life left in it and decided to rescue it. Call it miraculous or not, but it’s still the same tree and improving with age.

“We do different decorations every year,” an enthusiastic Agatha explained, “and we always have a different theme.”

Last year, the theme was nosegays, and the women picked up supplies from the Dollar Store and created little nosegay bouquets for the tree.

This year, the theme is poinsettias, and the tree is festooned with gold and white varieties of the Christmas flower, together with a couple of pink poinsettias tucked in the back of the tree among more brilliant gold ribbons.

Then the family also decorates the little Christmas Tree Room, putting colorful designs and ornaments on the walls, and tucking gift packages under the tree near the container for the gift cards.

“It is such a beautiful room,” Agatha said with true Christmas spirit, “and seeing the tree all decorated tucked into this beautiful room is kind of special.”

Agatha has four grandsons, in addition to those eight granddaughters, and while they do not participate in the tree trimming tradition, “there’s plenty of other things they always do all the time.  I all of them all my elves!”

Gift cards can also be dropped off at the Parish Office or placed in the mail box at the parish office entry, or mailed to OLPH St. Agnes Parish at 103 Center Avenue, Atlantic Highlands marked with the intention of the Saint Vincent DePaul Society. No cards will be accepted after December 3 since this is a special Christmas program.

Our Lady of Perpetual Help Church in Highlands also has its own very special Christmas tree for Gift Giving, and the story of that tree and why it is not decorated are another story of Christmas season happiness.   Look for that tree in the sanctuary of the church this weekend, along with labeled boxes to accept gift cards for both children with families and senior citizens in need. The last opportunity to donate to the OLPH Saint Vincent dePaul Society will be Sunday, December 17, though donations can also be delivered to the OLPH Food Pantry at the lower level of the church until until 6:30 p.m on December 17.

Look for another story this week on the Christmas Spirit that pours forth from the OLPH Saint Vincent dePaul Society Christmas Giving Tree.