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Cole Harbison’s monthly report on school activities to the Henry Hudson Regional Board of Education highlighted scholastic, historic, innovative and artistic programs ongoing in each of the three schools in the district.

Harbison gathers his material and meets with advisors each month to provide comprehensive information for both the board and the public, working with advisors Dawn DeSanto and Miranda Sarylan .

Reporting at the board meeting recently, Harbison explained the food audit conducted by the Atlantic Highlands Student Council under the direction of Advisor Jen Plaia . Purposes of the audit was to examine how much food is wasted during breakfast and lunch. As a result of their findings, the Student Council will take the lead in educating students about food usage and promoting ways unused food items can support those in need. This effort will include an ongoing food drive, with unused items being donated to local food pantries.

The school also welcomed the Harlem Wizards for a return of their WizFit Challenge, a fundraiser that not only supports the elementary school but also features engaging assemblies and an exciting basketball game. The Challenge emphasizes healthy living and physical activity, encouraging students to stay active and have fun.

He school’s annual Halloween festivities include a Dance October 24 and the Halloween Parade October 31st at 2:15 p.m.

At the Highlands Elementary School, the Student Council made final preparations to celebrate the borough’s 125th anniversary, originally scheduled for this month, but a portion of it, in which the students were reciting and singing about the history of the borough, was postponed due to adverse weather. Students researched the history of the borough, and explored songs and poems written in honor of the town. Students will participate at the Twin Lights on the re-scheduled date Sunday, November 9.

Students are reading “Navesink” by Philip Freneau, a poem written in 1798 highlighting the hilly landscape and natural beauty of Highlands.

The Highlands school also observed the Week of Respect with a series of interactive and engaging lessons focusing on how students can show respect for: – Themselves – Their peers – Their school and the broader community. Students also created pink paper ribbons to support Breast Cancer Awareness with the ribbons featuring words of encouragement and positive affirmations written by students. Students expressed their thanks for the leadership of their counselors and advisors, notably Counselor. DiLorenzo, and HES Student Council Advisors, Mrs. McBain and Mrs. Harbstreet.

At Henry Hudson Regional School, the Drama Club is presenting Be More Chill for this year’s fall high school musical! The pay is the story of Jeremy Heere, an awkward teenager who gains access to a supercomputer that helps him learn how to be cool and popular at school, then shows how this technology comes with a high cost and grave consequences. Performances are November 21 and 22 and tickets are on sale C-U-R 8. com).

Exciting things are also happening in the Henry Hudson video department, Harbeson reported, noting the AV Club has officially taken over Morning Announcements including job planning, filming, and editing daily broadcasts for the entire Henry Hudson community. Under the direction of Mr. Boylan, students are learning the ins and outs of live production, storytelling, and teamwork, and bringing their creativity to every episode! – Last year, the advisor held auditions for on-camera talent, and the announcements team now includes a student representative from every grade. This fall, the crew will be expanding again with new auditions to bring a 7th-grade voice to the team. Persons interested in seeing the students’ work can tune in to the HHRS Digital Video channel on YouTube.

The Henry Hudson Pep Band performed at the Keyport Football games September 27 and October 4. Pep band seniors Danny Neno, Aurora O’Neill, Marishka Evelich, and Alex Belusko were recognized on the field for their commitment to the ensemble during their time at Henry Hudson.

Students also honored three school’s custodial staff in recognition of School Custodian Appreciation Day. Under the leadership of School President Nathan Boms, the celebration began with a spirited “clap-in” to welcome and thank custodians. Nathan then delivered a speech, followed by the presentation of cards and gifts for both the daytime and nighttime crews. A video was shown featuring Nathan’s interviews with staff and students, expressing gratitude for Celia, Juan, and the entire custodial team whose hard work makes such a difference every day!

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Bicyclist Struck and Killed

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Bicyclist The Attorney General’s Office of Public Integrity and Accountability (OPIA) is investigating a fatal vehicle crash that occurred October 10 on State Route 36 in Middletown.

A 2019 law requires the Attorney General’s Office to conduct investigations of a person’s death that occurs during an encounter with a law enforcement officer acting in the officer’s official capacity or while the decedent is in custody. It requires that all such investigations be presented to a grand jury to determine if the evidence supports the return of an indictment against the officer or officers involved.

The accident involved an adult male who sustained fatal injuries, and an Atlantic Highlands police vehicle.

The Identity of both the resident and the police officer involved are not being released at this time.

According to the preliminary investigation, at approximately 1:00 p.m., an officer from the Atlantic Highlands Police Department, who was driving a marked police vehicle, collided on Route 36 in the area of Orchard Avenue with a cyclist who was riding an e-bike. The cyclist was airlifted to Jersey Shore University Medical Center in Neptune. He was pronounced deceased on October 19, 2025.

The investigation is ongoing and no further information is being released at this time.

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2 Parties 1 Town

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Atlantic Highlands NJ Mayor, Lori Hohenleitner

if the council was balanced between parties I believe there would be more of a discussion on agenda items and that more of the residents would be represented,” said Laura Hesse, a candidate for one of the two seats to be decided in the November election for the Atlantic Highlands Council. She continued “Right now, they (the borough council) vote the way the Mayor wants them to vote.”

Laura Hesse

Hesse and Justin Thomas are running for the two seats being vacated by Vito Coloasurdo and Eileen Cusick, neither of whom is seeking another term on the local governing body.

Hesse and Thomas are both Republicans, Colasurdo and Cusick are both Democrats.

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Should the Republicans win, it would mean that representatives of both political parties are represented on the borough council. Currently, the Mayor, and all six council members are Democrats, with no Republicans currently serving on the borough council.

Hesse confirmed there have been instances while the candidates were campaigning when residents, upon hearing they were Republicans, indicated they were not interested in hearing what they had to say or what plans they had for improvements in the borough should they be elected. It isn’t fair to judge us without hearing what we have to say, Hesse said.

Nor is it fair to all the residents of the borough, the candidate continued. Having both parties represented on the governing body would put the governing body on a more balanced level and let every resident of the borough feel his concerns are being taken equally, even though he might not be of the majority party. When all elected borough officials are members of the same party, it not only dominates, but is also representative of only one party’s opinion even though the borough is ruled under a bipartisan government form.

A bipartisan town government would put all candidates on the same level. The outcome of this election should not be about party affiliation as it appears from residents who will not even listen to us when we say we are Republicans; the election should be won based on the best candidate for the job, “ Hesse said.

Hesse continued that she feels confident both she and Thomas are the best qualified for council; her feeling, she said, has been endorsed by reactions from those residents who have taken the time to hear and see them in recent weeks.

Thomas and Hesse have been meeting people door to door in various sections of the borough and will continue to do so to give every resident an opportunity to meet them and discuss what they would want the borough council to be doing. Hesse and Thomas also have Facebook pages and videos to enable residents to know more about them and how they stand on matters that affect the borough.

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Democrat Running in Shrewsbury

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My top priority is making sure all viewpoints in our great town are represented by listening to our residents’ needs,” said Democrat Lori Sprizza, when asked why she is the lone Democrat running for one of the three seats to be decided on borough council this year.

Sprizza filed to run for one of the two seats also being sought by incumbent Republicans Christopher McAvoy and Devon Morton. The third seat, currently held by incumbent Councilwoman Devon Morton, is for a term to which she was appointed earlier this year .

It is rare for a Democrat to file for election to borough council in the borough that has been governed by Republicans for decades.

But Sprizza, who originally came from Hazlet and attended Raritan High School candidly admits she has no political experience and never had any intention of running for any political office. But how she has been affected by what is happening across the nation, and its impact on her three daughters, neighbors and communities led her to believe “it was time to stop complaining and time to take action and step up.”

Sprizza said “ There’s so much opportunity to show our children that despite what is happening around us that we may not agree with, we can, and should, work together to make a positive impact right here in our own community. “

Towards this end, the candidate feels she brings a unique perspective to the position, specifically to the local school community since she and her husband Lou have a daughter at Red Bank Regional and twin daughters in the local school system.

Asked why she felt the borough council rather than the board of education would be the better place to serve with her concerns for the schools, Sprizza explained she currently attends board meetings and feels residents can be brutal in their treatment of that board, and she does not think she has “the stuff” to handle that kind of constant criticism. The school board work, she feels, would be too stressful giving how supportive the board has always been towards her family concerns and needs.

That Sprizza has had a stressful few years but shows her capability for handling unforeseen personal events cannot be denied. Celebrating a happy marriage of 25 years earlier this month, the couple have lived in Shrewsbury 22 years and have worked their way, and continue to work their way successfully in handling some serious medical problems in the family. Within the last few years, one child had open heart surgery, one had a brain shunt and an unexpected revision ten weeks after her sister’s open-heart surgery.

Currently Sprizza sits on the Shrewsbury Community Alliance, bringing important programs to elementary school children along with information sessions for parents on issues including cyber safety, bullying, and mental health. She was a member of the planning committee for Big Steps for Little Feet for a number of years, an organization run by parents and Monmouth Medical staff that raises funds for the NICU at Monmouth Medical Center.

A nurse herself, with a degree in nursing from Kean University, Sprizza said her own twins spent the first four months of their lives in the NICU after being born prematurely at 24 weeks. “They are 12 years old now and thriving,” she points out happily. As a registered nurse in the Monmouth County community for most of her 30-year career she cares deeply about what is happening with healthcare and the health of our community. “I may not have experience sitting on a town council, but I am passionate about contributing and am ready and willing to learn. she explained enthusiastically.

Since there has never been a Democrat on council even longer than the Sprizza family has lived in the borough, reiterated that “ we have so many compassionate and qualified people that are willing to volunteer their time to serve Shrewsbury, and we need to hear those voices too!”

As part of her work if elected, Sprizza said she is interested in exploring how Netflix will impact Shrewsbury: its effect on local traffic, the potential growth for surrounding small businesses, and possible opportunities for Red Bank Regional students.

I’m just running on being myself; I do not pretend to know a whole lot about politics or to be someone I’m not. At the end of the day, we all want the same things for our town: safe roads, quality and nurturing schools for our kids, transparency and good communication between borough government, our schools, and our residents, and a clean and safe environment to leave the world. Shrewsbury is a very special place with very special people and the time to step up and volunteer felt right. Working together feels necessary and needed now more than ever.”

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Dr. Bill Schindler in Shrewsbury

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Shrewsbury native, author and internationally recognized archaeologist Dr. Bill Schindler will present a special program on both nourishing foods and ancient ways of preparing them at the Shrewsbury Historical Society museum on Sycamore Avenue Thursday, October 23.

Mayor Kim Eulner will moderate the unique program, which begins at 7 p.m. and is open to the public at no cost.

Dr. Schindler will relate the fascinating history on his groundbreaking approach to food, health, and culture, followed by a book signing of Eat Like a Human.

Dr. Schindler, who is also a chef, researcher, and author of Eat Like a Human: Nourishing Foods and Ancient Ways of Cooking to Revolutionize Your Health has studied the interactions of science, history, and food throughout his career. His work shows how ancestral foodways can transform modern health.

A graduate of the local elementary school in 1987 and Red Bank Regional in 1991 as well as an Eagle Scout rank he earned with Shrewsbury’s Boy Scout Troop #50 in 1989  Dr. Schindler was inducted into the Red Bank Regional Hall of Fame in 2013.

His path to higher education began with wrestling at Ohio State University, where an undiagnosed eye disease left him temporarily blind. After regaining his sight through a cornea transplant, he completed his undergraduate degree at The College of New Jersey and went on to earn his doctorate at Temple University.

The doctor built a distinguished academic career at Washington College in Chestertown, Maryland, where he became a highly popular professor known for blending experiential learning with rigorous scholarship. In 2014, he received the Alumni Award for Distinguished Teaching.

The educator’s scientific description and research of peoples and cultures, with their individual similarities and differences, graphic research and culinary work continue to take him and his family across the globe, collaborating with indigenous groups, traditional societies, and Michelin-starred chefs to preserve and share ancestral foodways. He is the founder and director of the Modern Stone Age Food Lab, a nonprofit group dedicated to reviving ancestral dietary approaches to build a more nourishing, ethical, and sustainable food system. His work has been featured in The Washington Post, The Atlantic, The London Times, and WIRED, and he co-starred on the National Geographic Channel series The Great Human Race.

Dr. Schindler and his family own and operate Modern Stone Age in Chestertown, Maryland-a one-of-a-kind ecosystem that includes the Modern Stone Age Kitchen, Food Lab, and Sanctuary. Through this work, he continues to inspire and empower people around the world to reconnect with their food.

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The God Wink Effect

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The God Wink Effect

By Squire Rushnell & Louise Duart

Howard Books 2017

Both the book and God Winks have been around for many years, but the book tells you where they are and how to find them. It also makes you realize you’ve experienced a lot of God winks without knowing it . Then it teaches you to how to make sure you notice them all in the future.

God winks are the little things that defy understanding. You know the things… all of a sudden you think of a friend you haven’t seen or heard from in years….then the next day or so, she calls you up and says she just found your phone number and wanted to say hello.

Or you’re planning on going to a particular place one evening and change your mind at the last minute. The next day you learn there had been a fire and several people were hurt. You could have been there, but you changed your mind at the last minute. A God wink.

Or you lose something valuable on the street and a stranger calls you up to say they found it and want to return it. A God wink.

The God Wink Effect shows you the different ways you get God winks. It highlights how prayer leads to experiencing more God winks. Simply asking for a God wink is another way to get more, or at the very least, confirms that that ‘coincidence’ is a God wink. Believing in answered prayers is the third of seven ways to experience God winks. Expecting them, recognizing signs of them, and accepting there really can be wonders are more ways, and finally becoming aware that being in the right place at the right time, or being with the right person at the right time aren’t just accidental or coincidental things. They’re all God winks.

The book, a quick read in just over 200 pages in paperback, tells a series of short stories on how folks, many of them popular names in the entertainment world, had God winks, recognized them as such, acted on them, and came out better for it.

Religious, spiritual and accenting the need to communicate with God, it’s also a book that convinces you there’s nothing coincidental in life…everything happens for a reason, everyone you meet you meet for a reason, and there’s nothing the matter with asking for something you think might be unreal.

Fact or fancy, it’s a fun book to read, makes you think of times things happened that were really weird, near impossible, or too unintentional, but you later find out how fortuitous they turned out to be. God winks.

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Autumn Harvest Party

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The Shrewsbury Historical Society’s annual Autumn Harvest Party at the home of Dr. Stephen Chagares and his wife Marianne drew earlier this week more than 150 guests to an afternoon of gracious friendship while raising funds for the maintenance and upkeep of the Historical Society museum located on Sycamore Ave.

The Society’s Museum is located next the historic Wardell House and Town Hall. Photo by Rick Geffken

Guests got a glimpse into the history of Lone Oaks and how the Chagares home is the perfect blend of history and modern living at the highest standard.

Lone Oak, so named because the massive oak which once graced the front yard of the estate on Sycamore avenue was the oldest oak in Monmouth County, was owned by the Chimento family and was designed by Sharon Chimento Archbold of Belle Époque Design.

Sending her regrets for not being able to attend this year’s Autumn Harvest, Archbold also expressed her honor for sharing the story of Lone Oak Manor and the vision behind its restoration.

The Chimento family acquired the estate which had stood abandoned for many years after a devastating fire. The new owners made numerous attempts to save the existing structure, but when it became clear too much of the original historic site had been lost, the decision was made to rebuild it, preserving its original chimneys, now the enduring symbols of the home’s past. The Chimentos poured both tradition and commitment into creating the present residence, designing it to suit modern living of the highest standard while never forgetting its past.

As result, visitors to Lone Oak can appreciate the paneled walls and original brick fireplaces along with the mill work which was selected to echo the character of the original manor. Modern features were integrated to bring the estate to a new era and elegance of function. The three-car garage offers 21st century practicality yet maintains the estate’s sense of scale.

The porte-cochere provides a stately welcome with its blend of both elegance and function, and an elevator offers comfort and accessibility among the various levels of the home. Inside, the houses feature a formal kitchen designed by Belle Epoque as both a showpiece and a gathering place with its high-end appliances, expansive workspace and custom cabinetry to reflect a family’s home entertainment plans. A wet bar compliments the entertaining ares of the downstairs, while upstairs a laundry brings modern convenience to daily life. A combination of both the old and new harmonizes to create a timeless lifestyle.

Archbold also pointed out that once renewed, Lone Oak has been established as a luxury rental as well as a model of a family residence. Expressing appreciation to the Chagares family for what they have brought to the estate and for opening their home to benefit the Society and enable residents to share its beauty and elegance, Archbold noted that “their stewardship ensures that the manor is one again part of the community fabric, not simply a house but as a living piece of Shrewsbury heritage.”

The designer concluded with the fact because of the kindness and generosity of the Chagares family in opening their home, “it stands as proof that from what was lost something enduring and beautiful can rise again.”

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Bayshore Pharmacy – They Care!

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With major drugstore chains closing down hundreds of locations, with chain drug stores filing bankruptcy and facing severe financial distress, now is the time more than ever to know more about and appreciate the value of a family-owned hometown pharmacy.

Bayshore Pharmacy in the Foodtown Shopping Mall on Route 36 in Atlantic Highlands is the perfect example.

CVS has announced plans to close 270 stores, on top of those they have already closed.

Walgreens has plans to shut down more than a thousand stores within the next 18 months.

Rite Aid filed for bankruptcy and now all of its stores are closed.

So what is it that keeps Bayshore Pharmacy alive and well, and continuing to help all its customers on a daily basis?

It’s simple. The bottom line is

THEY CARE!

It was 61 years ago, more than half a century and then some, that Richard C. Stryker, R.Ph. opened his pharmacy. Of course he chose to open it in Atlantic Highlands, his hometown, the town where the Stryker family laid down deep and firm roots in the 19th century. For Richard Stryker, it was more than opening a drug store. It was opening a pharmacy in his hometown that would provide for his friends and neighbors.

Stryker built up his business slowly, honestly, and with love and concern for the people he served. He brought up his son, Richard the same way, teaching him the importance of family, friendship, professionalism and always doing the right thing. Assured young Richard held to his same ideals, and those of the senior Stryker’s family members who were in the business with him, he retired, stepping down and handing the reins over to his son to carry on the Stryker tradition.

The second Richard Stryker follows his dad’s directives and guidance well; the pharmacy continues to be the pharmacy that is right there to assist every neighbor, every customer that comes through the door.

However, over the past half decade or so, the pharmacy industry as a whole has faced severe financial distress. The chain stores shut down locations and took major efforts to restructure their businesses. That included reducing labor costs, eliminating leases, shutting down stores that weren’t making enough of a profit, cutting back on services that did not make them any extra funds. In short, the needs of maintaining high profits took precedence over the everyday concerns of the chain store pharmacy patron.

But at Bayshore Pharmacy, the accent was still on customer service, still on maintaining a quaint and friendly business that had grown from being just a drug store to being the major gift shoppe and pharmacy for the area, while still keeping the accent on providing every pharmaceutical need every customer has. Their work and their constant desires to meet the needs of individual customers are highly effective.

Last year, the Bayshore Pharmacy family, for indeed it is a family, celebrated 61 years in business with flourish and fanfare that broke back scores of residents to celebrate and remember. Families who had moved out of state after raising their children here came back to celebrate with newcomers who didn’t know the history but knew they liked everything Bayshore Pharmacy had to offer. People knew Bayshore Pharmacy was more than a drug store, more than a gift shop; it was the home for family care.

Because it is a family-owned business, Bayshore Pharmacy is an independent pharmacy rather than part of a chain. As such the pharmacy focuses on what is needed most: personalized service, community commitment, and specialized programs.

The present Rich Stryker will tell you the key points of this store are the personalized relationship-based care that is offered. At Bayshore, no customer is a number; each is an individual name, a person the pharmacist will say Hi to from his place in the glassed- in work area behind the counter; tor he’ll come down to chat with a customer concerned about a new med, or to answer a customer’s question about his latest prescription, a question he answers in terms the customer can understand. Or any of the staff might just stop to talk for a minute, to assure himself his customer is happy and well taken care of.

As an independent pharmacy, Bayshore does not have any specific quota it feels obligated to fill; the accent is rather on providing specifically what the customer wants or needs.

As an independent pharmacy, Bayshore also offers convenience packaging, called ‘medication synchronization. That means the pharmacist and staff package all medications by date and time, simplifying complex regimens for many customers. It’s a service that’s offered that is particularly appreciated by senior citizens or caregivers, saving time and assuring accuracy in time and amount of every medication.

And while medications that are prescribed for renewal can always be renewed with ease, Bayshore offers reminders and arranges to have meds ready and waiting for the time and day requested by the customer. Or, delivered right to the home, should that be the request.

Bayshore also goes far beyond prescriptions. There are numerous health programs, including a Diabetes Education program, a Wellness Center, and other programs that encourage a customer to focus on being proactive in the areas of personal improved health and preventative care. The Health Center is now a major part of the pharmacy’s offerings, with its health sessions keeping individuals informed on everything from vitamins and supplements to heart health, diabetes and GLP1 support. It has grown in leaps and bounds since first opened less than five months ago as customers realize the benefits education offers in maintaining their own health standards and practices.
When it is a family-owned business in a town where literally everybody knows your name. Bayshore also offers a staff that is as warm and welcoming, as knowledgeable about their own work obligations and duties as the Strykers themselves. Many of the staff have been employed for decades, Store Manager Ellen Duda has been part of the Bayshore family for nearly three decades; others are second-generation employees whose parents also proudly worked at Bayshore Pharmacy. Even the rare new employee quickly learns the names of each customer, knowing each is far more important than simply being a person standing before the counter.

Bayshore Pharmacy has a long history in Monmouth County as a family-owned business that shows more than efficiency and excellence in the store. It’s also deeply grounded in the community, generous in their offerings of service and education, with the owners also involved in many other ways in the community. The senior Stryker, who still stops in the store long enough each week or so to ensure his son is maintaining his high standards and to revel in the friendship of the customers, was a long time Mayor of the community, the present owner is on the board of directors of the Portland Pointe senior housing community.

There is little doubt chain-owned and operated pharmacies are losing the confidence and trusted business of their customers.

That’s a far cry from what is happening at the family owned and operated, 61 year old Bayshore Pharmacy.

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Special Kind of Friends

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Friends If you know someone who is in a nursing home and you have a half hour or so to spare, make it a point to stop in and visit.

You’ll learn you will probably gain as much from the experience as the resident you’re visiting.

A recent visit to Care One at Middletown on Route 36 between Highlands and Atlantic Highlands just proved that to be so.

There were men hard at work checking the front door of the building; it had been operating off-kilter and the administrator wanted to be sure it was taken care of. It was.

Once inside, there was a friendly, genial, talkative resident sitting in the lobby, eager to say hello to everyone who came, share a laugh or tell a story. She was cute.

The lobby itself looked great for the Halloween season. The piano was covered in spider webs with an extraordinarily talented, apparently, skeleton sitting on the piano stool . Makes you laugh as you pass through en-route to visit.

Each of the day rooms, the big rooms in each section where residents sit and play games or enjoy the company of others, are also decorated for Halloween. A resident will wave hello, or ask how you’re doing. One will even tell you about the aide who brings in her dog that keeps everyone happy.

In some of the main rooms, there are several residents busy at coloring…Halloween décor, of course. They’re eager to show you their pumpkins and ghosts, their spiders and skeletons. It’s obvious they enjoy coloring and can be creative.

But going into the main dining room is the best. Before noon, Mary Beth, one of the employees in the activities department, was busy setting tables; she had varied colored placemats at each setting, along with silverware and napkins neatly wrapped. She had already decorated each table with an adorable and downright friendly looking Skeleton sitting amid a floral arrangement.

When she was complemented on the table décor, she smiled, said thanks, and added, “it was no work to do. This is for my friends.”

My friends. To Mary Beth, activities person, they weren’t patients. They weren’t residents. They were friends.

I stopped in to tell the administrator how great it sounded to hear Mary Beth talk about her friends. He agreed, adding how excellent she is at her job throughout the day. But she’s not the only one, he offered. To this staff at Care One, some of whom have been there since it was the old King James Care Center, some even there from the time Duke Black of Conners Hotel fame was the administrator, that’s exactly what the residents are. Friends. Not elderly people to be taken care of. Simply friends.

That was what put the finishing touch on a nursing home visit that felt good. Perhaps residents enjoyed the visit. Perhaps they were grateful for the break in the routine.

To me, it left a great feeling to know that to the staff, they weren’t taking care of patients or residents. They were taking care of friends.

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When Did We Begin to Hate?

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When did some people make the decision that hatred, violence, cursing, and name calling were really the adult way to handle everyday life?

When did people think it was okay, and so brave to make any scurrilous remarks about people they hate? For that matter, why do they hate others ?

Was it because of the impact the Covid closures had on the nation? Was it because people can hide behind Facebook or any of the other social media platforms and feel safe saying whatever they think will get them attention?

Is it because so many people are using words, they don’t even know the real meaning of?

Or is it because people simply read some things and refuse to see that in every instance, there are always two sides to a story.

In speaking of Charlie Kirk, there are those accounts of his being a, xenophobe,  homophobe, transphobe, misogynist, Fascist, a Nazi, a hatemonger, a racist. Yet no one can point to any of his statements or actions in their full context that spewed anything that would describe any of those names.

Perhaps part of that is because the people screaming Nazi or Fascist did not live through World War II, ergo, do not even know what a Nazi or a Fascist is. They do not know what people who lived through that war and lost friends, family and neighbors fighting so it would not come to the United States have gone through.

But now, it is down to the local level. There was a time political parties could argue their sides of an issue at a council meeting, agree to disagree, split the vote, end the meeting, and go out to the local bar for a nightcap and a rehash of the latest high school play or basketball game or the new family that moved in up the block.

No more.

Today, in so many cases, there are not two opposite parties running a borough expressing opinions from residents who might have two different viewpoints. Or if there are, the two sides don’t always talk to each other, let alone socialize after a meeting.

There are people like Cameron Fish who came out of a bar, made a scene and screamed while a youngster was trying to make a public speech and an outdoor peaceful gathering. But then, later he seemed calm and docile when talking with the police officer who had to be called because of the threat to a peaceful gathering.

What prompts actions like that?

When did we sink to public rudeness and insults to a youngster to show hate?

There are administrators of the social media pages who simply shut out the writers whose opinions they do not like. Are they so fearful of readers hearing both sides of issues and perhaps being able to think for themselves?

Why do people insist on perpetuating the hatred one person spews by adding fodder to keep the comments going? As an example, one story on the Atlantic Highlands peaceful gathering honoring a well-known deceased man on his birthday was read by thousands, not unusual.

What was unusual was the more than 100 comments in response to a straight news story. Most news stories draw considerably fewer comments. But to this story there were comments to comments and comments to comments to comments and on it goes.

Then there’s the vitriol of another man who hides behind whatever he can. Gus McD lives in Highlands. Or Atlantic Highlands. He has a lot of comments to make on Facebook, and even has a special page to spew his venom,” Sometimes it’s shady in Highlands.”

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Highlands Mayor Carolyn Broullon

In a recent bit of balderdash or venom, he wrote about the current Highlands Mayor words so despicable loathsome and detestable Veni Vidi Scripto could not include them here, with or without the obscenities apparently permitted on Facebook. Clearly, Mr.- lives- in- Highlands- or- Atlantic- Highlands doesn’t simply dislike, he really hates the Highlands Mayor. “ I thought I might back to make sure you lost” was the start of his venom and ended with “ So here we are.. I’m on a mission ….”

That is simply evil, hateful, sick, and its author is worthy of the disdain, not support of his neighbors.

Every day, it seems, there is more hatred being spewed and released for public viewing. It will continue, unless we do something to put a stop to it. Facebook users need to scroll right past all this venom, need to ignore the sickness that is being written, need to put an end to perpetuating hatred.

It was an Atlantic Highlands police officer who said it right at the Blue Mass this week: “We need more prayer.”If we tried it, maybe that would work.

To use a well-used term these days….it is deplorable, hatred needs to stop, and people need to turn to a friend and offer a hug, turn to a neighbor and offer a hand, and turn to a stranger and offer them love, understanding, and an open mind.

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