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Many Minds Giving Input

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Several residents, many accompanied by their small children, came together with their own creative ideas on how the South Avenue Neighborhood Park should be restored as remediation of the contaminated land is close to being completed.

However, agreeing with information presented by resident Thomas Broadbent, Borough Engineer Douglas Rohmeyer, confirmed that part of the park falls within 50 feet of the mean high water mark for Many Mind Creek. Broadbent noted that at least one-third of the basketball court would not be allowed under both federal and state laws governing wetlands. Under the 1970 Wetlands Act, construction of anything, including fences or paved surfaces, is prohibited within 50 feet on either side of Many Mind Creek.

The South Avenue park is part of the land the NJ Natural Gas Company has been restoring from contamination that dates back to the second World War. The company, like many other companies had dumped contaminants in local waters, in this case, through an outlet pipe into Many Mind Creek.

Mayor Loretta Gluckstein called a committee meeting to get input from residents of the area as to what they would like when the neighborhood park is restored.

Residents responded and gave input to the mayor ,Councilwoman Lori Hohenleitner, the administrator and borough engineers.

Borough Administrator Robert Ferragina encouraged residents to voice their opinions and further noted suggestions, comments and information will continue to be accepted either by e-mail, in person at Borough Hall, or any other means residents wish. Gluckstein also assured the gathering this is the first of several meetings before any work is begun on restoring the South Avenue Park. It is likely residents will be in attendance at Thursday’s regular 7 p.m. Council meeting of the Mayor and Council to hear more about plans, funding, and ideas.

“I think this has been a great meeting and a way for residents to come together to begin putting together the decades old Many Mind Creek Green Corridor Project,” Broadbent said after the meeting. The resident has done exhaustive research on the Creek, the environment and state and federal regulations governing non-disturbed areas such as Many Mind Creek. “This is giving the residents the opportunity to play a role in the greenway project, restoring the creek and salt marches, and being able to enhance their own neighborhood and properties with the encouragement of birds, small fish and terrapins, who thrive in the brackish waters of a creek,” He said.

The Greenway Project first came up two decades ago when the Friends of Many Mind Creek, in concert with Rutgers University, designed and urged a greenway project to restore the creek and salt marshes.

Erin Dougherty, who attended the meeting with the youngest of her three children, urged walking paths which would enable children to see and experience the natural elements within the area. “This could be nature inspired,” she said, “there could be programs where our children could learn about the environment and nature at play.” Such an idea would fit in perfectly with the Greenway project, Broadbent said.

Dougherty was one of a minority of residents at the meeting who said she did not feel the basketball court is the best use for the park, naming the several other locations in the borough where there are basketball hoops. It was this surface in the park Broadbent said would not be allowed because of the 50 foot prohibition on non-disturbed land.

Other residents said they would like a basketball court, some suggesting one where the net was either lower or adjustable; others said they wanted swings, with Rohmeyer explaining while it is a popular recreation, it requires considerable space for safety reasons and might limit what other equipment is offered. A picnic table, benches, a jungle gym, rock climbing wall and fencing were all also suggested. Residents suggested more natural colors for equipment, with the engineer adding that surface materials must also be designed to be compatible with the ground and water levels. Residents appear to be in general agreement that the recreational equipment that had been in the park and has been stored during remediation should no longer be used.

Kate Sharkey, 39 South Avenue, said something has been promised for the park for the 29 years she has lived here and first brought her children to the park. “I just want to be sure it happens,” she told the Mayor.

In response to questions, Councilwoman Lori Hohenleitner said the Gas Company is financing approximately $100,000 toward whatever improvements the borough decides on, and the borough might also have some funds available to help finance whatever is decided.

Moms & Mimosas

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With the dining room about filled to capacity, reservations are closed for the first annual Mother’s Day Brunch at the Shore Casino, set for 11 a.m. Sunday, May 8.

“So many families asked us Easter if we could do something again for Mother’s Day, we agreed,” say Shore Casino manager Jay Strebb. “We’ve made a few changes from Easter to make it more special and so families can enjoy a little more time together.” The manager said many reservations come in before any advertisement of the May event.

The price for the buffet brunch will remain at $50, plus tip and taxes, Strebb said, with children three and under free and reservations for children three to 12 set at half price at $25. The manager added the Brunch will include most of the most popular items from the Easter Brunch as well as some other dishes for Mother’s Day.

In addition to the Brunch, tickets will include a complimentary Mimosa for every Mother present.

Regionalization-You Have the RIGHT to Know … NOW

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For the second consecutive month, the Borough Council declined to pass a resolution which would ensure the state Education Commissioner could approve a request to let residents decide on a regionalization plan for the three schools and three school boards in Highlands and Atlantic Highlands, together with Sea Bright.

No one on Council responded favorably to Mayor Loretta Gluckstein’s request to hold a public meeting June 8 where residents could at least learn more about the two plans being considered for a regionalization plan for a K-12 district. Gluckstein also said it would be the first of at least two workshops on the school question, noting a second study commissioned with a state LEAP grant by the tri-board district is expected to be completed sometime in May and would also be the subject of a workshop.

When Gluckstein suggested June 8 as a possible date for the first meeting, Councilman Brian Dougherty promptly advised her there is a concert at the elementary school that evening. A check of the Atlantic Highlands school calendar on Facebook indicated there are no school activities in June before an Arts Show on June 15. There was a school concert on April 8, a Friday night.

Gluckstein noted the importance of letting the residents learn as much as possible about all aspects of the K-12 idea and be able to get the question on the November ballot for a decision. The Tri-district study was first thought to be completed in April, and when that did not happen, it is now anticipated to be completed in May. Setting a June date for a workshop would give residents information on the study already completed by the three towns involved and the BOE study.

Councilman Jon Crowley urged waiting for Dr. Tara Beams, superintendent of the Tri-district, to submit the delayed report before holding any town hall meetings and said A.H. shouldn’t “want to be like the other two towns” and hold a workshop without all of the information available. Councilman Steve Boracchia said “we don’t want to screw this up,” noting getting the information out correctly will enable everyone to learn.

 

Councilwoman Lori Hohenleitner said that no one on Council is opposed to a workshop, or the resolution calling for a referendum, but Crowley indicated it is important to get all the information out together and to have all the professionals present at the same time. The tri-district study has five different consultants involved, while the municipal study was completed by a single consultant group, Porzio. That group, completed the only regionalization proposal so far adopted in New Jersey. The Tri-district study, funded by the LEAP grant, is looking at regionalization of the three schools in Highlands and Atlantic Highlands being brought together as a K-12 district under a single board of education as opposed to the current three individual boards. There is also an alternative of regionalizing with other larger BOE’s in the area, or forming a new large school district across many shore BOEs.

Tracey Abby-White, a former teacher, board of education member and councilwoman, now Chairwoman of the A.H. Regionalization Study Committee appointed by Mayor Gluckstein, told the governing body that it is necessary to hold a town meeting if the question is going to be put to a vote by the residents, time is running short for that to happen. A referendum has to be forwarded to the state Commissioner of Education, who then has to review it and inform the municipalities of a decision. The question would then have to be negotiated by the three towns for the proper wording of the ballot and all of it must be done before the Aug. 15 deadline for adding it to the November ballot. “I’m afraid we’re running out of time,” she told the council. “All the money spent on all the studies will be for nothing. I hope things change.” She told council that if they do not set a date at their next meeting for within a short time after that, “then forget it.”

Residents at the meeting spoke both in favor of a decision for getting the question on the ballot and opposing it, with some saying it is a decision that should not be made by the council, nor by the voters, but only the elected boards of education. In what became heated exchanges and heightened emotionalism among residents and elected officials, Crowley charged that “Porzio is spinning a half-truth,” Hohenleitner saying it is not a political issue, council members ae all just “being thoughtful,” and Crowley reiterating it should be a school board decision.

Mark Fisher, who frequently brings background information from various sources he researches and asks council questions on the progress of numerous issues, asked why council could not act on approving a resolution now simply to provide a path to the administrative procedure in which the process could move forward.

Former Mayor Randy LeGrice questioned why school boards that frequently do not even attract sufficient candidates for office to fill places on the ballot let alone offer a choice to residents should be the right group to make the decision on a K-12 district.

Karen Masina, who is president of the Atlantic Highlands school board, said she was speaking as a board member and with board authority and chided the governing body because all the discussion is “only hurting our children. The arguments have to stop….I’m disgusted…I’m here for the children.,”

In the end, council took no action, no tentative date was set, and no date was given as to when the tri-district study due originally in March would be completed.

Regionalization, Taxes, Cops & Bernie Sweeney

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Sitting at one of the rare Atlantic Highlands council meetings I can attend (although Jon Crowley promised me it won’t be too long before I’ll be able to view them all virtually), it was kind of surprising to see all the emotion, the rudeness of talking over each other, and the misinformation being bandied about….and that was only among the council members and mayor, even before the public got involved!

The subject was school regionalization, who it should be with, who should make the decision, why even laying any groundwork for continuing discussion can’t be done and basically what happens next for the students if nothing happens?

Didn’t get the speaker’s name, but she made a point that many local residents seem to be asking these days. She said she is concerned and thinks the powers that be are simply stalling. Then she questioned why anyone would be stalling over the question if everyone is truly interested in the children and their education. She said the question has been bandied about for more than 20 years, it isn’t anything new. And she wants it on the ballot so the people can decide.

The folks who don’t want the decision to be made by the school boards also have a point, although whether members are elected, appointed or win by a vote or two because nobody cared enough to run shouldn’t really make the difference. They are the official board members regardless.

 

What is more important to note is the mission statement they agree to when they sit on that board. They promise to provide an education that successfully meets the needs of the student population, effectively prepare each child for the future and they can do this with outstanding teachers, a safe environment, quality education with technology and critical thinking, and a sense of owners by all partners in the education process.

 

What it doesn’t say is anything about any costs, financial burdens, overwhelming taxes or anything that indicates money is even a tiny consideration. It brought me back 30 years when I was first elected to the Highlands Board of Education. It was at my very first meeting….and several thereafter….that other board members reminded me I wasn’t to think about the cost of education, as a board member I was to think only of education, regardless.

The mission statement simply aims to “provide an education that successfully meets the needs of the student population….. nothing about costs, finances, or whether that education will be provided at the cost of others losing their homes or making extreme sacrifices to pay for it. In saying they want to create a sense of ownership, it’s community members who are listed last in a group that starts with students and parents, as well as staff before the individual taxpayer feels part of the ownership.

The councilwoman saying partisan politics isn’t involved is also probably right, since there was certainly a difference of opinion between former Mayor Randi LeGrice and Councilman Jon Crowley, both Democrats but definitely not in agreement with each other.

 

Mayor LeGrice wondered whether Mr. Crowley didn’t feel the pinch, so to speak, of so many taxpayers since he is not a taxpayer, but rather rents his residence in town. That brought a reaction from a few folks who said renter or owner doesn’t make a difference in this town, we’re all in it together. And renters feel the pinch of higher taxes anyway in the rent they pay.

 

So it should also follow through that since around 75 per cent of the taxpayers do not have children in the school but are the largest percentage paying the bill they should be considered in deciding the best way to pay for this education the school boards provide..

And while the school board member who spoke said she was speaking for the entire board, one wonders if there was a vote taken or authority actually given, or just a couple of board members thought it was a good idea for her to come to the meeting to tell the council “I’m disgusted” “the arguments have to stop.” Really? Now we have the board of education telling the folks who run the entire town and collect the taxes for that school that they can’t argue?

On the other hand, there were so many nice things that happened or were announced at the meeting, the swearing in of Lt. Michael Zudongi and new patrolman Joseph LaBella, and the fact the department is now up to its full complement of 15 members. Wonderful to see Officer LaBella’s dad do the honors for his son wearing his own uniform as a New York police Sergeant, now retired. You never hear any dispute over how terrific this police department is!. Same for the Public Works Department and no one can say enough nice things about their dedicated energy, their pride in a hard day’s work and always going above and beyond.

Even the municipal budget sounded really great and brought no questions from the public after a terrific presentation by the CFO. The municipal share of those taxes every property owner has to pay will actually mean a decrease in the rate of about 11 per cent, both because of a $117million increase in valuation assessments and department heads working so well and keeping costs down. Keep in mind, however, the borough’s costs in the overall tax bill is only a little less than one-third of the entire bill. Monmouth County accounts for another 14 per cent and the remaining 55 per cent? You guessed it, is for the education of the borough’s younger set.

Also terrific to see there will be a Bernie Sweeney Way at the Yacht Harbor where the late restaurateur at the Shore Casino was so will known, loved and admired. Knowing how he liked to get things done his way, it almost seems the sign, when it’s posted close to the bay front entrance of the road, shouldn’t read “Bernie Sweeney’s Way”. The ordinance will have a public hearing at the next meeting, and the road sign will most likely be posted, with great ceremony, I’m sure, in time for Bernie’s birthday on June 29.

Highlands is Happening!

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The Highlands Business Partnership put out a great colorful little in sheet on all the events this year, and it’s pretty impressive . There seems to be a lot going on just about every month, including the Brew by the Bay at the Seafarer on Atlantic Street on May 14 at 1 p.m., then the Seaport Craft Show at Huddy Park on May 29 starting at 10 a.m. This will be the 21st year for this craft show that features artists in everything from jewelry to furniture.

The annual Farmers Market opens this year on Jun 18 at Huddy Park, and what a terrific event that is, with so many farmers and artisans and the best local produce anywhere. This will be the 28th year for this very popular event.

There will be the second year of a fluke tournament on Jun 17 at Captain’s Cove Marina, with a tournament, prizes, and a post weigh-in party.

The annual Taste of Highlands features some of the fabulous eateries in the borough, and that’s set for June 25 from noon to 5, the 11th year they’ve been holding this event.

Of course the Clam Festival is a popular favorite and draws visitors from all over. That will be the weekend of Aug. 5, the 27tth year of featuring the shell food most connected with Highlands, and includes o much more than clams…all other kinds of seafood, beer and wine, specialty vendors, live entertainment, concerts, bands,, even more, and it’s all free!

The Twin Light Bike Ride will be Sept. 17 and entrants have their choice of signing on any one of 5 choices of distance from 15 to 100 miles. This is the 20th annual year for this event, and it’s been known for its landmark views, well-marked routes and well-stocked rest areas. Visit www.bikeny.org for more specifics.

Naturally the 21st annual Oktoberfest on Oct. 21 will feature Bavarian food, German beers, oompah bands and a lot more which will be announced closed to fall.

The handy little brochure spelling out al the events is available at all the local business partner businesses, and was made possible through the generosity of members Bahrs Restaurant, In the Grden, Captains Cove, Montecalvo and Baysore companies, Inlet Café, Dovetail vintage rentals Off the Hook, Highlands Board Club and Rentals the Proving Ground and Hufnagel Tree professional tree service.

Cinco de Mayo Cantina Crawl

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The Highlands Business Partnership will host its first annual Fiesta de Mayo Cantina Crawl Saturday, May 7 between noon and 5 p.m.

Tickets can be purchased online for $25.00 per person. The ticket price includes a Margarita Contest with eight restaurants competing for the Best Margarita in Highlands!

Participants will sample eight 6oz. Margaritas and vote for their favorite! The fee also includes discounted food and drink specials at the local eateries and pubs, specials at participating retail establishments and some surprise samplings!

Live Mariachi music will be playing at participating restaurants to add an authentic Mexican flair to the event!

Check-in and walk-up registration are at Huddy Park, Bay and Waterwitch avenues, (301 Shore Drive – GPS) between 11am and 12:30pm. Each ticket holder will receive a wrist band and map of the participating businesses.

This is a rain or shine event and is non-refundable.

Fiesta de Mayo Cantina Crawl is made possible by participating establishments and generous sponsors including NJ State Department of Travel & Tourism, Valley Bank, Bahrs Landing, Chilangos, Chubby Pickle, Gert’s Snacks and Spices, Feed & Seed, Sandbox at Seastreak Beach, In the Garden, Inlet Café, Off the Hook, One Willow, and Seafarer.

For more information on the Fiesta de Mayo Cantina Crawl or to purchase tickets, visit www.highlandsnj.com or call 732-291-4713.

Ensign, United States Navy

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It’s true as many of you have pointed out, and thanks so much for the interest. VenividiScripto has been less than prolific this week, but as the very proud grandma I want to show you why.

My youngest grandson, Angus James Yeoman, graduated from the University of South Carolina this week and more importantly was commissioned as an Ensign in the United States Navy at an incredible ceremony the day before graduation.

Angus is the son of my daughter Tracie and her husband Chris Yeoman and is a graduate of Donovan High School in Toms River. Tracie and Chris themselves are both former active duty sailors, Chris a Chief, Tracie a Commander, now Commander Smith-Yeoman, senior advisor of the Naval Science program at MAST on Sandy Hook. And in addition to Angus, Cdr. Smith-Yeoman had even more reasons to be proud at the graduation and commissioning, but that’s another story you’ll see here soon.

There will be plenty of photos of the ceremony, the wonderful people we met, the old friends we caught up with, and so much more about almost a week in South Carolina where the sun shone, spirits were high, and our days were crammed full of love, activity, and pride.

Notice Angus in his cap and gown and as a proud Gamecock also wearing the streamer showing as a graduating senior, he was active duty.

Regionalization – Why is Atlantic Afraid?

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Hey People of Atlantic Highlands and Highlands! You better start waking out before more of your rights, your decisions, your individual liberties are ALL taken away from you.

 

Pay attention before you’re left following the lead of those few, elected or appointed, who sound like they think you have no business thinking, asking, or even being informed on your own, let alone taking any action.

I’m angry for any number of reasons this week, but for now, maybe it’s because the people of Highlands are kind of letting the people of Atlantic Highlands run their lives. One more time.

If you’ve been around long enough, you remember more than half a century or so ago when Atlantic Highlands didn’t want Henry Hudson to be in Highlands, didn’t want their kids going to ‘that town.’ It took the determination and power of the people that got that high school up on the hill on a prime piece of land today’s Admirals are so proud to call their own. In Highlands yet.

Well, it’s the same thing now. Highlands officials, like Sea Bright officials, have taken the steps to let the people have their say on whether they want to save money and regionalize education. But they can’t even get that matter to the people in their towns to decide.

 

Know why?

 

Because Atlantic Highlands elected officials don’t care as much as the other two towns to let the people who pay all the bills and support all the businesses in town take the steps necessary to put a question on the November ballot.

Regionalization of schools is a big question across the state. And in January, after every member of the Legislature as well as the Governor approved it, the state plunked down a bunch of money so every town could call in experts and look at their own areas with professional help and review every phase of education as well as the best way to pay for it. That way, local folks would have recommendations on the best ideas for joining forces with other towns for a better education at less money. The legislation and the money given to conduct studies was a sign even state officials thought this was a question that should be decided at the local level. But, it also made clear, if the towns don’t do something themselves, well, then, the state will come in and do what it thinks is right. For your town.

So the three towns…Highlands, Sea Bright, and Atlantic Highlands, have passed that hurdle. The result is the Porzio report, a study completed by the only firm in the state that has ever presented a working, successful, economically improved regional district plan.

But for Atlantic Highlands officials, that isn’t enough. The Tri-district, just Highlands and Atlantic Highlands, paid for another study, just for the two towns. That study was supposed to be finished in March. It wasn’t. Then April. It wasn’t. Now it’s May. And apparently, it’s not done yet. Or if it is, the folks haven’t heard about it yet. As an aside, the fact a plan was paid for and scheduled to be concluded a few months back and still isn’t done makes me wonder how great the study can be on planning the future of education in the first place..

Now to the next step. In order to get a school question on the ballot, a town needs to get the approval of the Commissioner of Education. She has to read the request, study it, talk about it, make a decision, and write back to the towns to let them know she thinks that study is good and workable. The governing bodies then have to put the question on the ballot so the people can make the choice. All of that takes time. And the deadline to have it all finished is August 15. Sounds like a long time off, but think again, it will be summer and there are lots of other things going on. And red tape is always difficult to wade through in a timely fashion. And Atlantic Highlands is still hanging around without either approving a question on the ballot to start the process or holding a workshop on the one plan it has to let the people know what’s in it.

Do you see what I’m saying, Highlands people? You’re letting your next door neighbor stall and keep you from possibly having a vote on future education.

It’s been months since Highlands and Sea Bright have both said yes, please put a question on the ballot. It still needs Atlantic Highlands to say the same thing, according to state law. The Mayor wants the people to be able to have their say, looks like some of the council members want to as well. One councilman’s wife even quit her position on the school board so her husband could have a vote, kind of a weak thing to do. But the other councilman who has a wife on the board is going to be able to vote; his wife didn’t quit what she swore to do simply because things got a little tough.

But none of them backed the mayor when she asked to have a similar resolution approved. Or even a public hearing on the Porzio plan. Some said wait until that second study is finished, then hear them both at the same time.

 

Somehow, that sounds like an overwhelming amount of information for folks to have to absorb all in one night. What harm is there in hearing one idea being explained one night, then another idea another night? What’s wrong with letting the people know everything that’s going on?

The towns authorized a study, it was done the state paid for it, and workshops have been held in Highlands and Sea Bright. Just not in Atlantic Highlands.

So once again, Highlands residents. You’re letting Atlantic Highlands make decisions for you. You’re letting Atlantic Highlands tell you that by their holding out, they can deny you the right to vote on whether you want to regionalize with them alone, or with them and Sea Bright too.

Get on the phone. Call your friends and relatives in Atlantic Highlands. Ask them why they are letting their elected officials stall in giving not only you, but themselves, the right to hear the whole Porzio plan and cast your own ballot expressing how you think things should go. Ask them to attend Thursday’s meeting of the Atlantic Highlands Council at 7 p.m. and ask why nobody is supporting the Mayor in letting the public say how they want education to go in their towns. Ask them why they don’t want a workshop as soon as possible on the Porzio plan. Then, if the tri-district plan gets done and is released, have yet another workshop on that plan.

 

Ask them why they don’t ask why they can’t have the same rights as their friends and relatives in Highlands and Sea Bright.

Racism in America

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Want to know the quickest, easiest, best way to end racism? Have everyone in the nation enlist in the military!

Spending a week in South Carolina with a mixture of civilians and military, officer and enlisted, active duty and reserve, blacks, whites, Muslims, Hindu, Pennsylvania Dutch, Christians, Jews, rich, poor, educated and not so much, South Carolina native and tourist to name a few, they all had one thing in common. Color doesn’t mean a damn thing.

It all reminded me once again a lesson I learned decades ago. It was the time my son, a fourth grader, let me see that albeit unknowingly, I was teaching him to be a racist. Fortunately, it was a lesson he did not learn, but it taught me that racism is indeed a learned attitude.

I had known since before we were married that my husband, an Army veteran, was not racist, I suppose, but it simply wasn’t something we talked about. I knew there were few, if any, Blacks living in Highlands, but then, I came from Union, and other than the Vauxhall section, there weren’t many blacks there either. And that was just a section like another section where so many Irish lived, or another where all the Italians lived. And so on. Families moved close to families, friends moved closes to friends, that’s all.

These were just things you noticed, like when the daffodils come up in spring or the lilacs bloom on the highest branches first. But it simply wasn’t worth mentioning. And it wasn’t anything to talk about.

But watching the interaction this week of college kids and Sailors and Marines, with a few soldiers and airmen as well, it was so obvious that color is probably the last thing they noticed about each other. And if they did, it was only to better describe a new friend, or an old buddy.

There was the party a group from the Navy ROTC graduating class had at Steel Hand, an outstanding brewery, one of many, in Columbia. In addition to featuring dozens of varieties of beer brewed right on the spot, it also had both indoor and outdoor areas and tables for families and friends to gather, in groups large and small, for horseshoes, other games, music, dancing, and of course food and drink.

There was a group of casually clad folks ranging in age from late teens through senior citizens celebrating some event of a couple of folks among themselves. Hearing the laughter, seeing the joy, loving the outbursts of music, it was easy to grab a table near them just to hear the sheer happiness around the bar. But that wasn’t good enough for these folks. They quickly gathered us in, asked where we were from, and when they heard the military ties in our group, one of them called out to stop the music, stop the chatter, and said, “Hey., here’s a Chief! This is Chris!” And immediately the cheers started ,the fists bumped , the women run over and hugged and congratulated him, and the party instantly spread to our table. Then beyond. Then when they heard there was also a Marine in our midst, it started all over again. Young guys swapped stories of their service years with the old, experienced ones; all talked about the ships they served on, the places they were, the things, they did, the fun they had. Color didn’t matter.

Outside in the roofed in open area, it was the same way. No one cared about color, no one cared about what sex people were, no one cared where you came from or what you did for a living. It was all about simply liking to spend some time with someone they may or many not ever see again. We learned one of the females had just picked up Master Chief, one of the guy had just made Senior Chief. Both made it because of talent and hard work. They were two different colors.

It was typical throughout the week. Easy to see people of all colors and dress hugging each other, laughing together, eating in some of Columbia’s great restaurants, or shopping in their stores.

They say the Civil War is not over in the South, Nor will it ever be to some people. But put it all in the hands of the military where people of all colors work together, where their lives sometimes depend on each other, where each knows he has to carry his own load and be ready to share the load of someone in need.

 

It’s a great lesson the US military teaches without even realizing it. Just like the lesson I almost, but fortunately never taught, without even realizing it so many years ago.

Jimbo had a new kid in his class at OLPH. For weeks, all I heard about was Byron. Byron was wonderful, Byron could do anything, Byron could jump higher, run faster, had more fun, learn more than anybody. Byron and Jimbo obviously became fast friends. I knew Byron’s dad was in the Coast Guard at Sandy Hook, so at Jimbo’s request, I called Bonita, his mom, and made arrangements for him to come to our house after school for an afternoon of play, then Bonita would pick him up later.

The afternoon was wonderful; Jimbo and Byron played in the backyard, Jimbo showed his friend all his pets, they got together with Jimmy and Bobby and Chris and played ball in the school playground. At the end of the afternoon, when Bonita picked up Byron there were shouts and claps and backslaps all around as the kids knew they would do this again and again.

At supper, rehashing the fun time they had, I casually said to Jimbo, “I didn’t know Byron was black.” Jimbo didn’t miss a beat, didn’t stop eating, he simply responded to me with “is he?” I swallowed hard with shame at what I had almost done.

As for Jimbo? Of course he carried his same nonchalance at a person’s color with him into the Marine Corps where he found just about everyone else with whom he served felt the same way.

Used Bikes for Fourth-Graders

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If you have a bike you no longer need or want, the borough of Freehold is looking for gently used cycles to use in its Fourth Grade Bike Safety Program.

The borough’s Educational Foundation will be accepting bikes at the Park Avenue School Saturday, May 21, between 9 and 11:30 a.m.

All donations of bikes in working order are being accepted and will be put to good use in the safety program, said Mayor Kevin Kane.

For further information or a response to any questions, contact Lynn Reich at 73e2-462-3357.